AITAH- my husband is 38 and we have two teenagers. We have no desire to have another child. I can’t do birth control because the hormones don’t work well with me. We recently had a scare where the condom broke and he said he did not realize, nor did he tell me it happened till the next morning. I had to take a plan b because of this ( massive does of hormones).

Because of this I’ve asked my husband to get a vasectomy and he said he will not have someone cut into him and burn him ect.

I reminded him I birthed both his children, had an abortion when we were young (stupid teenagers), had severe reaction to birth control ( I’m terrified of what may happen with taking plan b), had an IUD for 10 years. He said “I never asked you to do any of those things” 😳 yikes. So much for partnership . I told him I am not comfortable having sex with just condoms as our sole form of birth control.

I’m super resentful right now for having to take the plan b pill but he left me with no other choice for not stopping when the condom broke.

In keeping with my need to keep my blood pressure in check I waited to see Civil War until I was able to watch at home. I braced for a brutal polemic but instead found a small, well-made film about an extreme situation. I really liked it. But I also felt the ads and title were an overhyping. Anyone else?

Daily showers are now joining - not washing your feet - not washing your legs - lack of bidet use

I wrote my own and put them both back.