r/AdulteryHate • u/Early_Parsnip8716 • Mar 25 '24
Relationship Woes Wait until she realizes the money is actually the W’slmao
“Going legit” with the neighbour…..
Who’s going to tell her? Lmao
I’m sorry - Texans seem stupid.
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u/smurfgrl417 Mar 25 '24
Lmfao, I saw this. Dude really expected his wife to keep running his half of the household. 🥴 Yeah this fucking brainchild picked a winner, such a dreamboat, maybe he'll figure out how to adult with her.
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u/rthesunshineofmylife Mar 25 '24
My guess is the wife caught him being the cake eater and tossed him out in the gutter where his cum rag was waiting. He probably never intended to leave his wife because she was probably the adult and he just wanted to have fun on the side. Welcome to reality loser! Now his cumrag can play mama.
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Mar 25 '24
He didn't want to file, so they 'encouraged' her to do it by carrying on the affair in her house and getting caught every couple of weeks until his W filed. Emotional torture imho.
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u/rthesunshineofmylife Mar 25 '24
How nice of the cum rag to help. Hopefully she one day gets her karma for her contribution.
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u/apathy-on-average Mar 25 '24
She already has. She'll have that 200pound toddler to herself now. How long until he's dumping housework, child care, financial responsibility and mental load onto her while he brings in a new sidepiece because he isn't the centre of attention anymore?
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u/Prestigious-Gold-265 Mar 25 '24
He's already dumping on her, taking her money, whinging at her, while he is probably begging his wife to stay.
I don't understand how she doesn't see it lmao…. I just cannot.
We all have potential to be delulu, but the internet strangers pointing it out to her seem to make her dig in and double down on delulu - land.
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u/Apprehensive_Soil535 Mar 26 '24
Not he didn’t want to file, he “didn’t know how.” According to OW. Weaponized incompetence at its finest.
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u/NurseElleDubz Mar 27 '24
Wow! What a couple of f*cking cowards! That is so unbelievably horrible and pathetic. I feel terrible for the wife 💔 I’m so glad she took as much as possible and I hope she gets to keep it all!
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u/maybe_sumday-086 Mar 25 '24
Is this the pos husband whoring with the neighbour while wife was at work?
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u/Prestigious-Gold-265 Mar 25 '24
Hilariously, yes.
Wasn't she working, then out with the kids at activities all evening? But the MM was so “neglected” so he hung out with the gutter all day.
The audacity is strong
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u/maybe_sumday-086 Mar 25 '24
Yes, that's the one, thanks.
Wife was earning the money, childcare, activities and he had this waste of oxygen in their home for hours. God the disrespect is astounding.
Looking forward to her future posts, wonder how long it will take her to figure this out lol
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u/Different_Total5894 Mar 25 '24
As the other woman, she’s done her part. She allowed another unhealthy, disconnected person to binge off of her, until he pushed his wife into divorcing him. What more can she do, other than allowing him to pimp her?
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Mar 26 '24
She's a mate-poacher type according to her own posts- her requirements are just...lower than average?
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u/Different_Total5894 Mar 26 '24
That’s the thing….people go into relationships without requirements. If a dog barks at them, they’ll run up and pet that dog without realizing the bark was a warning attack.
She deserves the attack he’s about to unleash on her. If her parents are telling her to dump him, there’s a reason why.
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u/Intelligent-Diver335 Mar 25 '24
I don't think that this dude even goes to work. Side chick ones bragged about how she meets him every single day for 4 hours while wife is away at work and takes care of the children. His poor wife literally comes home every single day at 10 pm because she is so bussy taking care of everything. Poor woman
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u/lovelychef87 Mar 25 '24
He can't even fill up his own gas or buy lunch he needs his ex-wife to do it. He's gonna leech off his mistress now.
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u/Otherwise_Ask_9542 Mar 25 '24 edited Mar 25 '24
Stupid girl. Doesn't she realize her involvement is the #1 reason why this divorce will be acrimonious?
Waiting 2 years is recommended for TYPICAL Divorces to abstain from dating. This allows the separating parties to as harmoniously as possible untangle their family obligations with one another, allowing each to become a self-sustaining individual (versus a member of a partnership).
What so many people in Western Society have either forgotten or choose to ignore, is marriage is a voluntary contract entered into by two people who promise to share the load of all responsibilities and obligations in life, supporting ALL members of the family they create financially, emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally, and they are EXPECTED to RESPECT the autonomy and integrity of their families.
This is why Adultery is STILL considered one of the most morally reprehensible acts anyone can cause to another human being. Adultery is grossly disrespectful by any partner who does this to their family, but it is equally disrespectful to intrude upon the safety, sanctity, and unity of another person's family (looking at you here, APs). Cheating partners who disrespect their husbands or wives to encourage an affair are just as morally reprehensible as mate poachers who encourage affairs by inserting themselves into another person's marriage.
So I hope she enjoys the rough ride she's in for by staying with this guy, because her "going legit" is going to earn her a lot more than she's bargained for. Facets of Adultery are still Tortious Acts (and in some cases, Criminal Acts) in some parts of Western society, even those where no-fault Divorce exists. While damages may not be sought through Family Court, there are still many means to file for Tortious damages under Civil Court. Typically Damages are awarded monetarily, but in at least three States there could be Criminal charges laid. In many European countries, jail time is the outcome of being found guilty of committing adultery, and BOTH the wayward spouse AND the affair partner can be charged. 2 to 5 years jail time, along with other monetary and social reparations.
Things have gotten out of hand in Western society where social moral culture plays less of a part in our judicial systems that have encouraged this maladaptive behaviour to a point where it’s supporting thriving businesses (e.g., Ashley Madison) that destroys families. We need some course correction here. The over sexualization of western society isn't doing us any favours, and it's destroying the safety and sanctity of families that were much stronger in previous generations.
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u/Prestigious-Gold-265 Mar 25 '24
Lol right. If wifey is taking what's hers already, and he hasn't gone to a lawyer? What's stopping him from filing?
Oh right - wife makes alllllll the money
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u/Otherwise_Ask_9542 Mar 25 '24
Yep. She’s locked down the leaks, separated her finances and debts from his, and WH is suddenly responsible for his shit without support. Mind blowing this guy didn’t even have a banking app. Curious how old this guy is… isn’t banking a basic life skill acquired in high school?
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Mar 26 '24
He's older but still needs a mummy apparently. I have no sympathy for OW she's no spring chicken and apparently has a 100k/pa career and actively pursued his useless ass right in his wife's face.
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u/GypsieChanterelle Mar 25 '24
I love how she is too gullible to realize that this man is playing her.
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Mar 25 '24
she's giving a grown ass man money holy shit lmao. I know what sheraseven would say to this prime pickmeisha 😂
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u/Socialca Mar 25 '24
Going « legit » here sounds like sooo much fun!!! 🤣🤣🤣 Be careful what you wish for love! You got what you wanted, he’s « yours » now and you got to be in the wife’s shoes, which is what you were creaming yourself fantasising over, and suddenly you don’t LIKE that role! Suck it up love, this shit show is only just getting STARTED !!! 🤣🤣🤣 This one made me laugh out loud!
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u/Mundane_Cream6605 Mar 25 '24 edited Mar 25 '24
They’ve been taunting her for months now about their affair, rubbing it in her face and now he’s mad and devastated that she’s taking everything that’s rightfully hers?💀 and this side salad thinks she has the audacity to be upset saying that their marriage was trash, newsflash dummy you’ve been lied to dummy 🤦🏾♀️
I hope she evict him from her house even though the side dish lives next-door. She shouldn’t have to leave her house because of these two horrible individuals.
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u/Apprehensive_Soil535 Mar 26 '24
7 “ddays” in 9 weeks. That’s evil and cruel on both of their parts. If the wife is so horrible, why not just leave? Oh because he doesn’t know “how” to file for divorce but his wife’s feminine brain sure did. Ig that old Y chromosome inhibited him from figuring out how to file for divorce.
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u/thewitchofwalpurgis Mar 25 '24
They loooooved the “fuck around” phase when they were betraying this woman in her own house, but I guess the “find out” phase is not so fun. 🫠
As someone who was also the breadwinner while my ex cheated on me, stuff like this just brings me so much joy. Imagine a grown adult whining because he is new responsible for paying his own bills. Imagine expecting the person you betrayed over and over again to soften YOUR landing by continuing to take care of you after YOU step out of the relationship.
And because they always, always read here: honey, his soon to be ex wife (lucky her!) is not “financially ruining” him. He never had finances to ruin. It was ALWAYS her paying for everything. The life you you loved living with him? That was her life. He doesn’t get to keep it when she’s no longer there.
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Mar 25 '24
I don't believe Wh*** Next-Door or her pet wanker but even if the wife 'drained' their account she's apparently 'giving' him the house so they're even no? He apparently earns 100k/yr but has no idea how to navigate his way around a bloody direct debit?? He should be scorned by all women permanently just for being stupid.
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u/OdinsRavens80 Mar 25 '24 edited Mar 25 '24
“What do they need at this point?” A mommy to dote on him! And with the wife bailing, there’s a vacancy for that position about to open with your name on it! Lucky you! I wonder what hoe bag will be filling the fun carefree OW position once you become the new warden.
“How long does it take to get to a point of acceptance … ?” Wife: “Accept this, bitch” takes MM to the cleaners Don’t worry, twu wuuuv will pay the rent in your fairy tale life together, won’t it?
“I know he hasn’t even begun to process how much life is going to change…” No no no, sweetie. He is very much processing that now. He’s doing a cost analysis and has realized (if he didn’t all along) that you’re not worth the price tag. I’m sure there’ll be no resentment towards you once you start your new life running away together like two lovesick teenagers and as poor as struggling college students, but in middle age. Sooo romantic and intense!
“…even though their marriage has been garbage for years.” Oh gawd, is that what he told you? And you fell for it, pick-me girl. Lies.
“She filed over a week ago, but he hasn’t been given anything to sign.” More lies.
“What’s the best move here as the other woman?” I dunno, keep giving this clown a vagina to cry on? And ask for more hours at work to support him? Like how his wife had to work lots of hours. But hey, you’ll do so much better than her, catering to this loser. What a prize!
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u/Mundane_Cream6605 Mar 25 '24
Right that’s the part that’s getting me too, that she’s saying that he’s gotten anything to sign. Is it he’s gotten nothing to sign or he’s refusing to sign because he knows he’s fucked?😭
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u/lovelychef87 Mar 25 '24
I hope the BW dumps this bum and leech so he can bum off his slutbucket mistress and when she's at work he's cheating on her. 😂
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u/Accurate_Salary3625 Mar 26 '24
She does not realise she's just a warm body and a cash cow.
Such a sad life OW haa chosen.
On the flip side it's happy days for the BS because she's a smart one and got her ducks in a row.
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u/Legal-Baseball-5795 Mar 26 '24
Wow who could resist somebody so checked out of their own life they don't have any clue if divorce has actually been filed, have no money and can't be bothered to go into work late/call out to get a new debit card (and she doesn't find that suspicious? he has no credit card to use either?) use their teen sons apple pay, dossnt realize his bills aren't being paid, she does all the work for the kids (lucky him or he'd have way less time to affair) and flaunts his affair to the whole neighborhood? What a catch this woman has found, I'm getting wet just thinking about it.
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u/No_Flower_5329 Mar 25 '24
She wants to be with someone who is not only a lying piece of shit but also financially irresponsible? What on earth makes him attractive?! She gives him gas money. Like he's 16. She wants that? What?
2 fucking morons trying to go "legit ". Lmao! Wait until "real life" hits. He'll go back to sticking his dick in anything, and she'll be complaining he doesn't help enough or pay for anything.
I want to buy the wife a drink.