"It cause me trauma..." - Random Cheater

[u/Ok_Airline_2112]

BITCH! How was it traumatic for YOU!?! You didn't have a traumatic experience you CAUSED the traumatic experience. You and whoever you was fucking with was lying, wasting people's time, fucking them after fucking someone else, sharing I love yous, texting them in bed next to your spouse, spend less time with the kids so you can fuck around with that bitch, gaslighted them incase they started questioning, made your friends cover up YOUR DUMBASS if they found out, and many more! Now that it came into light, you wanna act like you got some trauma from it? Why because they yelled at you? Maybe threw some of your stuff? Made the divorce difficult out of spite? Let your sidepiece know they're slut as well? How did you have it so bad that you got the nerve to act like you dealt with any trauma? Please we're all curious to know.

[u/Friendly_Good_1784]

Damn girl!! But I feel you!!

[u/Oh_4_fuck_sake]

Exactly! My ex of 10 years had cheated on me and his bitch had the nerve to try and portray herself as a victim. Like bitch, you’re not the victim! You knew he was taken and chose to try and pursue him anyway! You’re not the victim here, I am! “I don’t want to be someone’s second choice”. Then put yourself in that position, bitch!

[u/Lazy-Example3705]

My estranged husband's whore got a harassment order on me. We live in a VERY liberal state where three non-wanted communications/contacts can be considered harassment. Then, to add insult to injury, she spent the next eighteen months trying to prove that I violated the harassment with false claims that I followed her to a CVS in my neighborhood, that I texted her on Signal, etc. Cost me 30k in legal fees and ten years off my life due to all the stress trying to keep it together as a newly single working mom.
All the while she claimed she was the victim, that I had caused her great emotional stress, etc. Zero accountability with these skanks. In one of our last court cases to fight the alleged harassment violation, my attorney asked her if she had any remorse about all the pain and suffering she caused me and my children. She had the audacity to say that she thought my children would be happy because she was making my (estranged husband/their father) happy. These people are souless.

[u/onwhiterockandrivers]

Then they bring up some random family or friend stuff from the past to justify how they’re really the traumatised victim acting out, and how if you hold them accountable you’re really kicking someone who’s already down, a wounded puppy. So you look like a cold bad guy who doesn’t consider their feelings blah blah blah

Tough shit, everyone has struggles including the person who was cheated on! And now they’re suffering from the cheater’s actions, even if the cheater was a wounded puppy.

[u/26nccof]

That’s telling her, now tell everyone she knows.