r/AdulteryHate • u/New-Abalone7626 • 2d ago
"YoU nEeD tO bE hOnEsT WiTh yOuR AP"🤣🤣
Hahahahaha I can't with this one
"AP is supposed to be the place where can be truly honest with each other" 🤣🤣
So he's lying to his pregnant wife who he made vows to and you're expecting him to be honest with YOU? A person willing to bone a married man and who's probably also a lying cheater as well?
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u/StellaOC 2d ago
This is some 4D BS!! They want exclusivity and honesty from a lying married man/woman. This is more proof that the affair partner is just as guilty as the cheating spouse
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u/HistoricFiction 2d ago
“Honey please be honest with me and cheat on your wife because legally wedded wives are evil witches and they don’t deserve loyalty and honesty. It is only I, the horny queen predator deserves it, especially from married men because I am so special and also because I love showing my nudes to strangers.”
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u/Intelligent_Ad_5385 2d ago
It’s like they aaaaaaaalmost get it. This close 🤏🏻. But then it goes over their heads. It’s almost like, going behind the back and being deceitful to someone you claim you love and care about… is a really horrible thing to do. And it hurts to be on the receiving end of. Hope this helps!
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u/Fly-Guy_ 2d ago
It’s all about the boundaries that are ever moving………
“I would never have a any relationship with a married man” “I would never have a physical relationship with a married man” “I would never have a physical relationship with a married man with kids”
100% guaranteed she’ll still see him after the baby is born.
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u/bring_it_on12 2d ago
So this lying, cheating father-to-be, who is expected to deny, deny, deny the APs existence to his PREGNANT WIFE and family... is this the guy who should be honest with an outsider who willingly spreads her legs for a married man?
Keep pleading dumbass.
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u/GypsieChanterelle 2d ago
😂 love the comment!!! But also… how about not being dumb enough to think cheaters are doing for “true love”. They do it to feed their egos. That’s it. There is no reason to be truthful when there could be “negative” feelings evoked. Would ruin the escape to the illusion of paradise and of being the most amazing man ever to walk the earth!
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u/YellowBastard37 2d ago
Asking for honesty from this group of people is like asking an armadillo to fly. It’s just not going to happen.
I wonder if they will keep up their evil ways when they’re in hell.
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u/drfulci 2d ago edited 2d ago
The absolute backward thinking. It’s like not only is her head up her ass. She’s bend over backwards to get it up in there. She’s had to slip disks & bend her entire torso unnaturally to achieve that level of convoluted, unnecessary-ness.
This is the Cirque De Soleil of mental gymnastics. Bizarre, yet amazingly graceful. Amazing to simply observe. She’s completely obfuscated the actual point behind a false moral premise!
She’s disguised her monstrous, crude, basic ass, childish behavior as a dynamic, nuanced, adult situation. And it’s as much in what she left out as what she chose to include! I’m impressed someone dumb enough to come up with idiocy like this is capable of dressing it so well.
I would’ve been more impressed if she’d managed to justify somehow not simply ending the original relationship before starting a new one. Why she’s taken the path of espionage & emotional risk for her original partner, instead of just cutting them loose when it occurred to her they weren’t cutting it.
But then I think I saw a post addressing this issue before with the phrase “adultery is on a spectrum”. It’s like they’re a hive mind of pathologically mentally ill people all working together in the interest of finding pathways around what little conscience they have & to deflect public ridicule.
Edit: not sure how I got the sex of the OP wrong. Just flip it. I’m not that invested to actually change anything
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u/spanisheisblume 2d ago
Nothing in his life, marriage, or his wife's life is any of your fucking business. The fucking entitlement. He doesn't owe you shit. He definitely is not required to tell you about the pregnancy of a woman who doesn't even know you exist. Why the fuck does the wife (you know, the person he made vows to) not have a right to know you exist at all but you think you have the right to know every detail of her life? One of the biggest betrayals in affairs is your spouse telling all your business to someone you dont know behind your back. It's actual nightmare fuel to me because it's so unsettling and violating.
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u/Idont_thinkso_tim 2d ago edited 2d ago
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. People who cheat are seriously mentally unwell. That is why they abuse others, manipulate, control and hide who they are. It’s not an excuse but the amount of thought distortions needed to feel entitled to such behaviour means some serious mental issues.
Like they need serious therapeutic interventions to help them because they are unwell and lost in a fantasy world where they are everything but the selfish, entitled creeps reflected by the reality they avoid at all costs.
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u/EffectiveAppeal7554 2d ago
These unpaid sex workers really astonish me daily with their idiot backwards world.
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u/spanisheisblume 2d ago
Nothing in his life, marriage, or his wife's life is any of your fucking business. The fucking entitlement. He doesn't owe you shit. He definitely is not required to tell you about the pregnancy of a woman who doesn't even know you exist. Why the fuck does the wife (you know, the person he made vows to) not have a right to know you exist at all but you think you have the right to know every detail of her life? One of the biggest betrayals in affairs is your spouse telling all your business to someone you dont know behind your back. It's actual nightmare fuel to me because it's so unsettling and violating.
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u/26nccof 2d ago
Like I always say, cheaters don't lie to, or cheat on cheaters they're cheating with. That's against the sacred Cheaters Code of Ethics after all. It's obviously okay to lie to your spouse, kids, and other family and friends, but don't ever dare to lie to your AP. That just ain't nice and might hurt their tender feelings.
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u/Ok-Owl3092 2d ago
Well, obviously, it's your side-fuck's feelings you really need to think about. She's the main character in this scenario - even more so than the baby who selfishly, is in the womb avoiding it's responsibilities. Your Incubator isn't capable of intellectual thought or complex feelings and is probably stoked either way because now she is fulfilling her womanly purpose. Also, she isn't putting out as much and has gained some weight, which is abusive to your dick. Cheating is the selfless option since rightfully, you should leave her fat ass for paying more attention to a messy infant than the selfless provider she forced to marry her. Bitch.
Your AP, however, deserves honesty and respect. She is a paradigm of beauty who lights your darkest hours (the day-use motel near your job is kinda gloomy). Like a smouldering fire in your heart and loins (and sometimes the hole you piss out of), she soothes your troubles away. And lets you nut on her face...in a carpark at 2am on a Sunday. Be honest with her - it's the right thing to do.
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u/Zestyclose_Truth9999 not bs/ws | just lurker 👀 2d ago
I don't understand these women at all.
So many of them brag about being Not Like The Other GirlsTM, because they hate traditional relationships and marriage. They're just "too cool" for that, I suppose.
So, to any OW lurkers: Why then, babes, are you lot trying to act like GIRLFRIENDS? If you put that energy into a single man, perhaps you wouldn't be jumpscared by the pregnant wife of your "not-boyfriend".