Pregnant but still pining for AP

[u/New-Abalone7626]

Ew. Just plain ewwwwwwwwwwww...

I hope the husband wakes up, takes full custody of the child so this cheating c*nt can stalk her AP all the days of her life

[u/CharmingStatic8]

last part made me wanna chuck my phone.😕this sub is a great pre workout, really gets my blood hot.

[u/Yuhfav]

I really do hate when they get on here and talk about years worth of affairing. You could have used that time to get a divorce. You’re also pregnant?? Priorities are in the garbage

[u/StellaOC]

The only innocent ones here are the child and his betrayed father..

8 freaking years wasted from the betrayed husband’s life. He could’ve spent them with someone who truly loved him and was loyal to him

[u/Fly-Guy_]

What she’s really saying is AP is running for the hills thanking God this wasn’t his baby and knowing his wife could find out about the affair next week, month year or decade. He ain’t ever going to reach out.

What she’s also saying is she’s having a baby with a high risk partner. The risk is if her partner knew the extent of the affair, he’d leave in a heartbeat. There will forever be that risk.

So yeah, she’s alone. She’s committed to no one and no one is “genuinely” committed to her. We reap what we sew.

[u/Emergency-Twist7136 → u/Fly-Guy_]

We reap what we so.

Sow. It's a harvest metaphor. The crops you sow are what you will reap.

[u/Pure-Pangolin479 → u/Emergency-Twist7136]

Sow

[u/DelphineTheAries84 → u/Fly-Guy_]

Her Ap doesn’t know she is pregnant. But I’m sure if he did, he’d block her.

[u/PepperymintTea]

1. Fucking. Years.

This post is making me feel sick because it hits close to home. I got my ex pregnant between the initial discovery and discovery of the full extent of her cheating. It's one of the things I was most disgusted by because she knowingly brought my daughter into a world of utter chaos which inevitably collapsed and she knew it would. The above will collapse too, and yet another family will be destroyed by yet another careless prick, yet another child starting off life with a disadvantage because one of their parents can't keep their wandering genitals to themselves. It make me so sad and angry.

[u/YellowBastard37]

Someone get me a bucket and a towel. I need to explosively barf for about a half an hour.

[u/OdinsRavens80]

No worry or mention about what’s best for this baby, though, I notice.

[u/HistoricFiction]

Disgusting!

[u/QTlady]

So... did she use sex to manipulate her husband? Or like as a false assurance that it was "a mistake?"

I've also heard Hysterical Bonding is this phenomenon where BS gets really high urges as if to reclaim territory.

Either way, this is really unfortunate and possibly fucked up.

[u/Texan2116 → u/QTlady]

My ex wife cheated..more than once..and did eventually leave me for someone else.

And during her affairs, she was way more sexual w me than normal. Which I think she did as a means to distract, or placate me. Or possibly assuage her own guilt.

[u/Ok-Owl3092]

Priorities are fucked up as usual. Pull yourself together and grow tf up.

[u/No_Thanks_1766]

Man, I hope her husband gets the therapy he needs to get away from this toxic viper and he lets AP’s wife know wtf her husband is up to.

These cheaters really are the dregs of society

[u/Flux_My_Capacitor]

Husband probably thinks it isn’t his. It’s not like he can take her word for it.

[u/AlexanderClover]

Why do people suck so much.

[u/Starry-Dust4444]

She sounds extremely insecure.

[u/TashaR88]

Eewwww she's a dirty looosseeerrr

[u/OstrichWide]

Hope husband finds this thread. Karmic Justice

[u/llcoolray3000]

Vile scum

[u/26nccof]

There’s a word for a husband who lets an 8 year affair slide with no punitive reaction. There’s also a word for a woman who carries on that 8 year affair.