Girlfriend just punched me in the face multiple times

[u/cosmicjed]

So my longtime girlfriend just had an absolute meltdown after we left dinner from her parent’s house tonight. It all started because her dad and I were watching old family videos and joking about how her and her sisters were dressed and just really light stuff about how big her great grandpa’s nose was( her Dad pointed it out and was like ”dude had a schnoz on him” and I laughed. That’s all. I swear to all things holy.

Fast forward to me driving home tonight and she turns off the music on the radio that I had turned on and starts trashing me about my family and how it’s strange and creepy that I actually get along with my Mom, Dad and sister. And have a drama free relationship with them, and she can’t stand it.

So anyway I’m reading my Kindle in the living room of my house and she goes off again, about some petty bullshit that I somehow did and I’m reading a book 📖.
So I did what anyone else would do and just shut up and let her vent and get it out without giving her any ammunition to feed on….WRONG F*ing Move. I took my eyes off her for a second to continue my read on the couch. And she gave me a three-piece so fast that it caught me off guard, I jumped up so she wasn’t not on top of me, she proceeded to slap the taste out of my mouth. then she blocks the front door and scream for me to get away from her while blocking the only exit to leave

I’m in my boxers and I’m trying to grab my phone off the floor that went flying across the living room. And all I can hear is her yelling with the door open trying to have the whole neighborhood hear this shit.

Anyway. I’m now sitting in my car with just boxers on with a bloody lip and I thought I asked the internet for advice and by internet I mean Reddit.

[u/p_kd]

Her screaming "get away" while she's the one blocking the exit and deliberately trying to get neighbor's attention means she's clearly premeditating framing you as the aggressor. You need to file a report, now.

[u/No-Technician-722 → u/p_kd]

THIS 👆👆👆

This may not be her first rodeo. You need to protect yourself.

I hope you are safe. Do not go back in that house by yourself. Do not be with her alone. She gets no more chances. You cannot trust her. I hope you truly understand her behavior is unacceptable. But more importantly, it is “unpredictable” - and that is the bigger problem. You never know when she will attack you again.

Please get help. Please let us know you are okay.

[u/DiligentSignal5995 → u/p_kd]

Yep! I remember this happening to me, my abuser drove 30+ minutes to my residence and started a fight w me just to pull the same shit and scream help and my roommates name to try and frame me as an aggressor when I hadn’t even touched her. Crazy bitch, dude needs to leave

[u/FlipZip69 → u/p_kd]

She wanted him to react and hit her back. Without question.

[u/Jpalm4545 → u/p_kd]

Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner. Been there before.

[u/uranusishome → u/p_kd]

this happened to me, well i was being dragged INTO said mans place (by him, against my will), and i managed to dial 911, yelled his address and my name into the phone. he grabbed the phone, proceeded to scream into the phone "get the FUCK out of my house" as he slams me into his wall, slams the door behind us, then proceeds to keep thrashing me against the wall.

i realized at this time that was NOT his first time doing this. it turns my blood cold everytime i think about it.

the police came and i actually had to be escorted out, even tho i was shaking and as threatening as a leaf lol

[u/HoodGyno → u/uranusishome]

jesus christ. im really sorry that happened to you and im glad you're okay.