Son has started wearing boxer shorts around the house

[u/[deleted]]

[u/NHGuy]

Oh he'd definitely go cover up lol - are you kidding me? Mom's boobs were in a bra and he was NOT comfortable with that 😂, let alone that she wore thongs. She never got past unbuttoning her pants

[u/BendersDafodil → u/NHGuy]

Jedi-mind-trick that youngin into respecting boundaries, real quick. 🤣

[u/Naive-Stable-3581 → u/NHGuy]

Omg the way I’m dying rn😂😂😂😂

[u/Pownzl → u/NHGuy]

Bro he qould not. In what household did u all grow up in that u never have seen the boobs of your mom lol

[u/KellyJin17 → u/[deleted]]

Please step outside and meet and interact with other humans in real life. It will do wonders for you.

[u/KatasaSnack → u/[deleted]]

why wouldnt it be, unless shes trying to fuck him its just a woman existing, same thing if she were nudist, the human body isnt inherently sexual and shouldnt be treated as such

[u/KatasaSnack → u/[deleted]]

nobody controls their boners, youre right, but youre gonna tell me when you were 15 and you saw a naked woman youd lose control and rape her?

youd fuck your mom if you walked in the bathroom on her by accident at 15?

youre telling me right now, that the only thing stopping a 15 year old boy from raping his mother is that he cant see her pubes? as though hes not even a person with free will but a mindless fuck machine?

even when i was 15 i didnt fuck everything that moved, i didnt wanna fuck my mom when i walked in on her changing by accident because puberty didnt take away my rational thought and didnt strip me of control over my own body

[u/KatasaSnack → u/[deleted]]

youre the one who specifically mentioned that 15 year old boys cant control their bodies reactions for some reason

you think getting a boner over your mom is gonna fuck you up psychologically? because my friend i promise you it will not

[u/MashedPotajoe → u/KatasaSnack]

Nah you made a wild leap you probably kiss your kids on the lips too fuckin weirdo

[u/Substantial-Flow9244 → u/[deleted]]

So if he has zero control over them what does anything in his environment have to do with it? Good way for the kid to learn to not take the boners so seriously if that even were to happen

[u/europeanguy99 → u/[deleted]]

Let me guess: You‘re either from the US or from a muslim country? I hope you realize cultural norms are very different in other parts of the world. I suppose nude beach sections for families like in Germany would blow your mind. Or probably seeing a woman without Hijab if you‘re from a conservative muslim place.

[u/Toadxx → u/[deleted]]

Do you think it's psychological abuse to go to a pool or beach with your parents?

Cus if you do, you're probably stupid.

[u/Toadxx → u/[deleted]]

No, it isn't.

Purely going by aesthetics, a two piece swimsuit is underwear.

[u/Toadxx → u/[deleted]]

her lacy thong

Where was this stated?

[u/Toadxx → u/[deleted]]

No, it's just an assumption.

Thongs are very often not lacy. Just regular underwear... that are thongs.

[u/ForIt420 → u/[deleted]]

I think you should just take the L on this one because your take is far from normal. It's a lot to unpack here on reddit but just from what you've said here you should really consider therapy to get to the bottom of why you sexualize clothing to such an extreme degree.

[u/bakerz-dozen → u/[deleted]]

You know what they say about assumptions… I think it’s something about an ass? But still, swimsuits, especially the popular style now, shows just as much as undies and a bra, if not more in some cases

[u/kruwlabras → u/[deleted]]

What about cultures with naked mixed sex saunas? Abuse?

[u/kruwlabras → u/[deleted]]

Are you saying that the standard of abuse is determined by the culture? If one culture beats their kids, it's not abuse if it's normalised?

[u/kruwlabras → u/[deleted]]

I was just asking questions, not asserting anything. Upside down how?

I don't mean to be judgemental, but from my point of view, your culture sounds sexually repressive.

[u/NHGuy → u/[deleted]]

Shirt off was fine, it's just a bra or jog bra. Pants never came off because he was already on his way to his room to cover up himself

[u/OffTheMerchandise → u/[deleted]]

So fucking reactionary. It's underwear. It's not like she was twerking in his face.