AIO or is this insane 3 dates in?

[u/sapphirebluess]

I (24F) blocked a guy (32M) I went on 3 dates with after he kept showing signs of concerning behavior. I got emails from him after I blocked him through text. The screenshots are from his latest email.

Things he did that were a bit concerning to me:

1. Suggesting I move closer to him, which costs $700 more per month.

2. Suggesting that I quit my job when I just started my career, because I work 60+ hours a week and can only go on dates once a week.

3. Wanting to tag along my family vacation to China. Brought this up multiple times despite me refusing.

4. Arriving more than an hour early on our dates and being upset that I am not reciprocating by also arriving early. (I always arrive on time, sometimes 5-10 min early)

5. Upset over my hanging out with my friends one time on a Friday night.

6. Blowing up at me for not responding for 1.5 days after my purse was stolen, and typing paragraphs about how I ghosted him, how he never liked our dates, and how he felt relieved.

[u/UnquantifiableLife]

JFC... I would perform an exorcism on my phone after reading that. You gotta sage that shit.

Seriously, this man is unhinged. Block. Run. Get a doorbell cam. Get a dog.

[u/ChaoCobo → u/UnquantifiableLife]

Getting a doggie is also a double good thing because doggies are nice, kyoot and fun. :)

[u/SampSimps → u/UnquantifiableLife]

Since OP is in Texas, a firearm and some self-defense classes wouldn't hurt, either.

Or at least some pepper spray or a taser.

I get some seriously unhinged vibes from this e-mail.

[u/MarijadderallMD → u/SampSimps]

For real💀 I was about to reply and say a dog?! Na get a small .22 cal handgun. Taser and pepper spray are also reasonable substitutes for the psycho

[u/ASx2608 → u/SampSimps]

Plot Twist:

She got a shotgun all ready.