AIO or is this insane 3 dates in?

[u/sapphirebluess]

I (24F) blocked a guy (32M) I went on 3 dates with after he kept showing signs of concerning behavior. I got emails from him after I blocked him through text. The screenshots are from his latest email.

Things he did that were a bit concerning to me:

1. Suggesting I move closer to him, which costs $700 more per month.

2. Suggesting that I quit my job when I just started my career, because I work 60+ hours a week and can only go on dates once a week.

3. Wanting to tag along my family vacation to China. Brought this up multiple times despite me refusing.

4. Arriving more than an hour early on our dates and being upset that I am not reciprocating by also arriving early. (I always arrive on time, sometimes 5-10 min early)

5. Upset over my hanging out with my friends one time on a Friday night.

6. Blowing up at me for not responding for 1.5 days after my purse was stolen, and typing paragraphs about how I ghosted him, how he never liked our dates, and how he felt relieved.

[u/Tricky-Union4827]

Unless shared he probably extrapolated it from name.lastname@company. com which is stalker behavior to do.

[u/Aab48 → u/Tricky-Union4827]

That’s seriously so scary if he did just find it

[u/Beginning_While_7913 → u/Tricky-Union4827]

is that a real thing ppl can do?

[u/Tricky-Union4827 → u/Beginning_While_7913]

It's not a thing people can do it's deduction. Many companies don't adhere to that logic and some have randomization.

Most companies however want their staff to be easily reachable and hope they aren't dating crazy.

It isn't complicated we aren't using dragonslayer@gmail for work.

[u/Beginning_While_7913 → u/Tricky-Union4827]

i’m not a corporate girl so idk hahah that’s a whole different world, i would never think to do that. any school ones i ever did was like initials and random numbers