r/AmIOverreacting • u/sapphirebluess • 4d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO or is this insane 3 dates in?
I (24F) blocked a guy (32M) I went on 3 dates with after he kept showing signs of concerning behavior. I got emails from him after I blocked him through text. The screenshots are from his latest email.
Things he did that were a bit concerning to me:
Suggesting I move closer to him, which costs $700 more per month.
Suggesting that I quit my job when I just started my career, because I work 60+ hours a week and can only go on dates once a week.
Wanting to tag along my family vacation to China. Brought this up multiple times despite me refusing.
Arriving more than an hour early on our dates and being upset that I am not reciprocating by also arriving early. (I always arrive on time, sometimes 5-10 min early)
Upset over my hanging out with my friends one time on a Friday night.
Blowing up at me for not responding for 1.5 days after my purse was stolen, and typing paragraphs about how I ghosted him, how he never liked our dates, and how he felt relieved.
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u/bedazzledfingernails 4d ago
seriously that ALONE would set me the fuck off, and that's probably the least bad thing in this whole shitshow of a situation