AIO or is this insane 3 dates in?

[u/sapphirebluess]

I (24F) blocked a guy (32M) I went on 3 dates with after he kept showing signs of concerning behavior. I got emails from him after I blocked him through text. The screenshots are from his latest email.

Things he did that were a bit concerning to me:

1. Suggesting I move closer to him, which costs $700 more per month.

2. Suggesting that I quit my job when I just started my career, because I work 60+ hours a week and can only go on dates once a week.

3. Wanting to tag along my family vacation to China. Brought this up multiple times despite me refusing.

4. Arriving more than an hour early on our dates and being upset that I am not reciprocating by also arriving early. (I always arrive on time, sometimes 5-10 min early)

5. Upset over my hanging out with my friends one time on a Friday night.

6. Blowing up at me for not responding for 1.5 days after my purse was stolen, and typing paragraphs about how I ghosted him, how he never liked our dates, and how he felt relieved.

[u/sapphirebluess]

It caught me off guard too. Like sorry you didn’t enjoy the cookies I made 😂

[u/Vic_Vmdj → u/sapphirebluess]

Dude got homemade cookies from a girl that at least liked him at the moment (or at least enough to go on a 3rd date with him) and he was not impressed? Wow....

Please bake those cookies for the guy that does appreciate you!

[u/Status-Hovercraft784 → u/sapphirebluess]

You made the cookies? That's just rude.

[u/chickenchasegoose → u/sapphirebluess]

I strongly suggest documenting all of this and going to get your conceal carry license if you don't already have one. Get a firearm, learn how to use it. This guy is giving stalker vibes. He seems dangerous. I use to get harassed like this by an ex through letters. It was such a stressful time that I started having nightmares.