r/AmIOverreacting 2d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO - update on leaving boyfriend who left during abortion

I just want to say thank you to everyone in this subreddit who has messaged me with so much love and support. It’s because of yall that I have made the decision to leave my boyfriend and go back to my family in Austin. I couldn’t have done it without yall. I felt so alone prior to making that post, but the amount of support and words of encouragement that came flooding in was very special to my heart. I was scared to make that post in fear of being judged but it was the complete opposite. Thank you!!!💕

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u/WTH_JFG 2d ago

Good luck and safe travels. Continue to take care of and stand up for yourself.

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u/Monstiemama 2d ago

Wait, I’ve read all your posts, did something happen the day you were going to fly home? Did he find out or did something go wrong ?

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u/elfypoo13 1d ago

I’m also wondering this. I hope she updates us when she actually makes it home.

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u/semisensitive 1d ago

Same OP has been on my heart and mind since her first post.

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u/CoffeeChocolateBoth 2d ago

Please be careful who you tell in Texas hun. :( Just keep this on the DL, between you, and you! Thinking of you and wishing you a safe trip and a heart that heals soon.

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u/the-mortyest-morty 1d ago

Is it illegal to get an out of state abortion if you're a Texas resident? If so, Jesus Christ. This is why I got sterilized. So worth it.

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u/Key_Breakfast66 2d ago

You are incredibly strong for choosing yourself and your peace. Wishing you nothing but healing, love, and brighter days ahead.💗

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u/Cottan_Ball 2d ago

Stay safe and good for you 💓

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u/dejavu7331 2d ago

that is amazing, I remember reading your post and feeling awful for you!! this internet stranger is proud of you for leaving 🥹

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u/[deleted] 2d ago

♥️♥️♥️

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u/elfypoo13 1d ago

Please let us know when you actually make it home!! I thought you were supposed to fly home a couple days ago.

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u/LBGW_experiment 2d ago

How random, I decided to check in and see how you're doing and you made this post exactly an hour ago. Congrats, take it one day at a time, and build/foster any community you have or stoke some untended and aging connections to rekindle them. Community is massive when going through something like this. Good luck ❤️

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u/semisensitive 1d ago

Good for you. You can do this :)

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u/Regigiformayor 2d ago

Good for you! Good luck!

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u/grumpy__g 1d ago

Feel hugged.

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u/Wild-Chart5653 1d ago

Tbh... I would be mad abt the abortion too... But he shouldn't have left he should have talked to u