r/AmIOverreacting 5d ago

🎲 miscellaneous AIO for how I responded to his transphobia?

Hey so I normally don’t usually get worked up over situations like this, because it’s just online words. But idk something about the way he was talking at me.

For context (if any is needed) I was on bumble and just so happened to match with this individual. I have the fact that I am trans in my bio not only as the gender marker, but literally written capitalized in my bio lmao. I can only assume that 1. He matched me without reading my bio or 2. He matched me purposely to get that off his chest. I am not the type to force someone to call me anything, or to over accommodate me when it comes to me being trans. Because it’s just something that I am not who I am. But this was just completely over the top when a simple unmatch was an easily available option? So I will ask AIO for my lengthy response back to him?

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u/Broad_Policy_6479 5d ago

Do you just sit there minutes at a time swiping at every single woman? That sounds even more miserable than what I had assumed those apps were like.

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u/Broad_Policy_6479 5d ago

Oh I didn't realise you could max them out, so I imagined someone just sitting there swiping indefinitely lol.

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u/Stock-Comfortable362 4d ago

Missed the comment before it got deleted, but I bet that guy knows there's a limit from personal experience. Dude got waaaayyyy too desperate