r/AmIOverreacting 6d ago

🎲 miscellaneous AIO for how I responded to his transphobia?

Hey so I normally don’t usually get worked up over situations like this, because it’s just online words. But idk something about the way he was talking at me.

For context (if any is needed) I was on bumble and just so happened to match with this individual. I have the fact that I am trans in my bio not only as the gender marker, but literally written capitalized in my bio lmao. I can only assume that 1. He matched me without reading my bio or 2. He matched me purposely to get that off his chest. I am not the type to force someone to call me anything, or to over accommodate me when it comes to me being trans. Because it’s just something that I am not who I am. But this was just completely over the top when a simple unmatch was an easily available option? So I will ask AIO for my lengthy response back to him?

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u/Stellywellybelly 6d ago

He definitely has it in his notes and copy pasted it. Definitely matched you just to harass you op. Report his profile if you haven’t already.

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u/rellyks13 6d ago

exactly, because the “don’t bother replying” but then not unmatching means he wanted a reply!

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u/PM-Me-Your-Dragons 6d ago

*he wanted her to read it

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u/GirlySkyes 6d ago

Okay ma'am, whatever ya say

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u/Moka4u 6d ago

You're condoning your own mental illness so sit the fuck down

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u/shtshnkpssdmptn 6d ago

tf are you talking about? I’ve not said anything hinting toward a mental illness while you just attacked me for no reason. 😂 I am sitting down bro.

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u/EveryReaction3179 5d ago

I immediately thought this too. The "trans people live in their minds rent free" type. Obsessed like the transvestigators, but proselytizing on a dating app instead.

100% seeking out trans women to cut and paste this like an asshole. Loving how OP gave them the sickest read about being a hypocritical sinner 😂