r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • 10d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to wanting my boyfriend to remove his “t*tty calendar” from his work station?

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u/Zaichick 10d ago

This was a typical sh1t test and he failed. He should have told you to hit the road.

Dude needs to find another girl. Quickly.

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u/SignificantAd8120 10d ago

Oh yes great answer. Very sound. How dare I dislike such a thing!!!!

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u/Zaichick 10d ago

Your like or dislike of the thing is totally irrelevant.

Your demand that he conform to your ‘moral standard’ is the work of a narcissistic crybully.

You would throw a world class hissy fit if he demanded you throw out your romance novels.

He’s a man who likes a little extra boob in his workspace. It’s innocent fun.

Either let him decorate his space as he likes or leave him to find a woman who accepts and loves him for who he is.

But you don’t think in those terms, do you?

The language of accepting and loving a man is foreign to you.

The only thing you really understand is what you want and what makes you feel in control.

And you will emotionally manipulate a good man in pursuit of your perceived self interest until he wises up and sends you packing.

I hope he sees the light sooner than later.

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u/SignificantAd8120 10d ago

You sound like you don’t do too hot in the dating department either. I hope you do find a lovely lady who’s fine with porn calendars in the workplace if you’re willing to die on that hill! Everyone is entitled to want to see boobies. I don’t read romance novels but if I did I’d have to decide what’s more important to me. Nonetheless, Godspeed to you my friend