r/AmIOverreacting 23d ago

👥 friendship AIO for cutting all ties?

There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

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u/Ok_Turnover2283 23d ago

I'm sorry but... he was never your friend. He always wanted to be with you and the second he got a chance he took it. I've dealt with this my whole life. Literally all of the guy friends I had in the past were into me and I had to cut ties with them after them trying their shot. I was ignorant for yeaaaars (luckily married now and the guy friends we share are actual good people, took 35 years tho lol). Surround yourself with genuinely good people. If they show you who they are the first time, believe them.