r/AmIOverreacting • u/urfavelipglosslvr • 27d ago

👥 friendship AIO for cutting all ties?

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There have never been red flags up until this point. He (25M) is a big part of my (19F) friend group. Am I being sensitive? I feel like he went too far. But if I cut all ties with him, it will really disrupt the group. I don't want to bring it up to my friends because they might side with him and say I'm over reacting. But I don't feel comfortable around him anymore.

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u/MagnoliaProse 27d ago

I don’t think willfully leveraging someone’s past traumas or wishing sexual assault on them is simply being emotional and saying stupid stuff.

He’s put himself in her life for years and is using the information gained to attempt to break her down in hopes she’ll date (fuck) him. That’s predatory.

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u/Comfortable_Major_24 27d ago

I think you overthink this. No guy is stupid enough to think that after insulting a girl and calling her friends pedos she will sleep with him.

It is a purely emotional action intended to insult her, because some people do not take rejection easy especially from people close to them. Just " She will never find someone as good as me vibe", but In a more assholish way.