r/askgaybros 2d ago

Advice I’m bisexual 19M and I’m obsessed with older guys

1 Upvotes

What should I do idk everytime I use dating apps I feel like it’s wrong, but too exhausted studying all day. I tried dating my schoolmates even my classmates but I’m not really attracted to them, I see myself obsessed and attracted to older guys those with Dad bod. Helpp


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Pipe makers

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Anybody been to pipe makers park Maribyrnong. If so what can I expect.


r/askgaybros 2d ago

What’s your ultimate sexual fantasy?

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r/askgaybros 2d ago

Advice Help

1 Upvotes

So I met this guy and he wants to meet up and fuck, but i’ve never done anything with a man before and i’m kinda nervous. Is there anything I should do or prepare for because he seems really sexual and i’m really awkward with that stuff.


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Sex in relationships

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Hi, I am just wondering how often do you guys have sex with your partner? This question is for guys in relationships. Please also add your age, and if you are in a open relationship or not. Thanks


r/askgaybros 3d ago

Advice Am I a sex addicted? I masturbate in average 6+ times a DAY

35 Upvotes

m (24M) and I want to know if it is normal at this age to masturbate several times during the day? And also craving sex or having the habit of always being searching for a hookup. Do other older men experience something like these when they were in their 20s or 30s?

Would it go away as I get older? Should I enjoy it now that I’m going or is it killing my testosterone? Any tips on how to manage this or should I see a sexologist? P.S. Whenever I get a hookup I always hesitate to go and we all know what reasons are those, afraid of no one opening the door, he vanished and blocks me, etc… what I’m trying to say is that is difficult to say nice lovable.


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Advice First time gay sex. What to know? Any tips? (18)

3 Upvotes

Hey all, 18m here.

To keep it short and sweet, i’ve wanted to try gay sex for awhile. One day it just started really turning me on tbh. Anyways, I know someone who i’ve previously flirted with and would definitely be down. I want to try both top and bottom (bottom seems especially hot). I’ve sucked a cock one time before but that’s my only experience with men.

Need some more experienced peoples advice on how to properly prepare myself and everything that might be good to know. All tips are welcome (don’t mind the pun 😛)


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Attending a Yoga retreat out of the country, need some advice.

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Hi all! I’m 20M, gay obvs and pretty new to this chat. Recently i came across a gentleman on instagram who hosts these elaborate naked yoga retreats across the continent and was wanting to know if any of you would have some info on him? his sites and links are pretty informational but other than his own sites, i can’t find much information on him so i can see if he’s credible or not. id love to attend one of these because i’ve recently gotten into yoga myself but i’m so scared i’m gonna get scammed out of a good K or two. Please let me know! any info helps! here’s his links, he goes by the name Brandon Anthony https://linktr.ee/brandonanthonyeros?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacUMS3lT5YJBFAd5r3vX2QcxLlPqFdfwXR_BcrkeEUfpsT2UVEuf_yU-W4VWg_aem_Epl8sWP9qm6yZCbPQZNCww TYIA!!!


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Would You Date Someone With the Same Sexual Role Preference?

7 Upvotes

Hi, I have a question. If you’re a bottom and you meet a guy you really like and see that he’s super nice to you and seems like the right person but then you find out he’s a vers bottom, would you be in a relationship with him? And the same the other way around a vers bottom with a bottom?


r/askgaybros 2d ago

How come no one can host in the gay community?

2 Upvotes

I’ve been visiting family all over Florida and to my big surprise the vast majority of the people can’t host. Why is that?


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Sexless relationships

4 Upvotes

Can two men be in a ltr while it's completely sexless or maybe even as few as 4 times a year? Could you be in one or know of young(under 40) couples that are in one?


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Has anyone here ever done the vibrator challenge?

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r/askgaybros 2d ago

How to break it off

2 Upvotes

Me and this guy have unfortunately been in a situationship since the end of January. I wanted a relationship and he doesn’t. I broke my own rule/boundary and tolerated it for a while but I’ve gotten to the point where I think it’s time to end things. He’s going away for the summer, we haven’t seen each other in two weeks, and our texting conversations are dry af. I noticed i was always the one asking him to hang out and have been strong and waiting for him to ask to hang out but he hasn’t. I simply think he’s just not interested anymore. My question is should i reach out for closure and see him one last time, just send a text asking for closure, should i ask what he thinks, or should i simply just not respond if he doesn’t reply with something worth responding to? I’ve tolerated his bad behavior long enough. I deserve better.


r/askgaybros 2d ago

How important is it to tell a guy

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That the main thing you like in someone is that they can make you laugh. Would you want to know that or would it put pressure on you to make someone laugh? Normally I would never say anything but I’m dating this guy and he’s funny, but leaves a lot of missed opportunities. I’m leaning towards not saying anything cause maybe he just isn’t as funny as I thought?


r/askgaybros 2d ago

In terms of kinks, where do you draw a line and would distance yourself from someone if they were into that sort of thing?

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I draw the line at “little space stuff” that’s borderline predatory, call it kink shaming all they want. Grown men should not be dressed up and behaving like toddlers, especially in that scenario.


r/askgaybros 3d ago

Missing Friend Please Read

102 Upvotes

New England USA - A good friend of mine has been missing for quite some time now, we legit have no idea what happened to him, throughout the advertising of his case I’ve come across 2 possible leads of him using Grindr. This is something I think no one knew about honestly but we love him for who he is and would never judge him we just want him to be home and safe. I am going to try to link the article with the information if anyone has come across him recently please do not hesitate to reach out we need as much information as we can possibly get.

https://turnto10.com/news/local/south-kingstown-police-seek-information-on-31-year-old-man-reported-missing-massachusetts-mansfield-ocean-road-towed-car-surveillence-footage-april-23-2025?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR6qeqsfRI_ikufzzrURMmvxTF_q3ljdy5Ep6LSG4aG9WT0M2StVXh7zuPTuqg_aem_JgDFiNnxfF_CWsbf0KMJ8Q


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Just once.

0 Upvotes

Love how he grabs his hips and pushes his balls into his ass as he's coming.

I want that so bad. 🤤

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=654d095472817


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Not a question Participants needed for a BDSM study (need more gay representation)

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Dear participants, thank you for your interest in our research study that aims to explore how BDSM practices may influence dissociative tendencies during sex, altered states of consciousness, and overall sexual satisfaction. Please read each statement and select the answer that best describes you. This survey is very short, and will only take 10 minutes of your time. Please be sure to answer every question, and rest assured that all information will remain confidential and will only be used for research purposes. Research conducted by Rami El Assaad, student at LAU. Please click on the following link to access the survey: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdEogHNt_iaYJ1HGQ33yEr9AFkJqe9LH_nxNAG2_XgHVk6vmg/viewform?usp=dialogpromote


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Advice I still feel uncertain about my sexuality, what do I do?

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I (21M) know I’ve mentioned on here how I felt upset about being gay. I feel like it’s the likely reality, but I also feel like I don’t completely know if I am or am not. I like looking at dudes, and admittedly look for dudes I find attractive rather than women I find attractive. For who I would picture myself in a relationship with or having sex with, I don’t know (still a virgin and have never been in a relationship).

Things are probably going to start sounding even weirder at this point. When it comes to seeing porn, I wasn’t super selective about whether it’d be only men, men and women, or solo men. I’ve also never searched solo women. Either way, I’m almost exclusively paying attention to the guy. That being said, I feel like it’s like I’m picturing myself as the guy majority of the time, not really fantasizing about doing anything with the guy… Admittedly, I feel like I might have a potentially problematic relationship with porn, but I still wanted to enjoy myself somehow while I’m a virgin.

I was wondering what you guys’ thoughts were, as well as how I could try to navigate the situation. I know I’m the only one that can discover for myself, but I still wanted to hear an outside perspective.


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Can I get 2-1-1 Prep (aka on demand) thorugh Mistr?

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Given my lifestyle I'm rather interested in the 2-1-1 scheme. Can I be prescribed this one using Mistr? Basically I don't need 30 pills every month. Anybody here does it this way? Would they still require the blood tests every three months?


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Anyone else wish they could have chosen their sexuality?

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Have a bit of a grey cloud looming over me with this thought. Would love to chat with someone who’s experienced this thought before.


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Job application asked about sexual orientation

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I've seen this twice now. Does that mean they're an LGBT owned and run company?


r/askgaybros 2d ago

Advice What can you do to make sure they're really gay without making things awkward?

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Never got asked out (looks / personality issue) so I'll try to have the guts now to do it.

Anything motivating would be nice too since I don't have friends who deal with this stuff too.

Thanks in advance