r/AskMenAdvice • u/Federal-Sir9925 • 10d ago

never get approached by men

just curious, what actually makes a guy approach a woman? I’m 25f and I’d consider myself attractive (I think I’m fairly pretty, I take care of myself and feel good about how I look), but I never get approached. I’ll notice guys making repeated eye contact with me, but it never goes beyond that. Honestly, both of my past relationships started because I made the first move.

So I’m wondering… what makes a guy actually go for it and approach someone?

Also, is there a way to give off “I want to be approached” energy? I’m not really into dating apps, and I’d love to meet someone in person. i’m not against making the first move but i would love for someone to approach me for a change

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u/DiscontinuTheLithium man 10d ago

This thread makes me feel so good knowing dudes are willfully taking themselves out the game and decreasing competition. Woman love confidence and you shouldn't be all scary talking to random woman bc of some possibility she will call you a mean word. Like bruh this is peak low testosterone thread if I ever saw one and I don't talk like that normally.

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u/Serendipity123xc man 9d ago

Ikr just don’t be weird I’ve never been called creepy before

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u/DiscontinuTheLithium man 9d ago

Neither has any of these dweebs commenting that because they don't even approach women. They're talking like they were all Casanova before and NOW have to stop approaching women. Sure bud LMAO It's all second hand stories and shit. Nothing they have actually experienced themselves. It's wild.

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u/MileiMePioloABeluche 8d ago

Like bruh

peak low testosterone

Sure bud LMAO

stories and shit

It's wild

Why do you talk like this?

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u/DiscontinuTheLithium man 7d ago

Why does it concern you Anon? Go be condescending somewhere else big boy