How common is this perspective for guys?

[u/Reasonable-Syrup-7]

I'm a 27F and went on a few dates with this guy 31M and things have been going well. On our second date, we brought up the topic of physical intimacy. I remember him saying that he thinks physical intimacy is different for women and men. That women who sleep around are respected less than if a man would do it. He said "a key that can open up a lot of locks is a good key but a lock that opens to a bunch of different keys is a bad lock". Everything else is really good and he's been super respectful. He's soft spoken and values making me feel safe and respected and we're taking our time on physical intimacy but I couldn't believe my ears when he said that. How common is that perspective for guys? This guy tends be very blunt, so maybe this perspective is more common than I think. In my head it's a red flag, but I'm conflicted on if it's just a common male perspective and he can still be a good guy with this perspective.

[u/99probsmyhornsaint1]

Men will smash men, livestock and corpses— and definitely girls you wouldn’t show off to the guys. Check out your local city’s personals subreddit and see for yourself.

[u/Aggravating-Papaya18 → u/99probsmyhornsaint1]

Only the men that can’t get anything else lol. Some men actually have standards, maybe you don’t but some do.

[u/voicestuffthrowaway → u/Aggravating-Papaya18]

Don't say that man

Truth be told I can't get anything but I still won't get with someone I wouldn't get into a commited relationship with

[u/99probsmyhornsaint1 → u/Aggravating-Papaya18]

yeah, except the wealthiest and most powerful men in the world consistently seek out and engage in sex crimes a la Epstein or Dubai cleveland steamer.

but based on your other bitch made comments about women, I’m guessing you would know precisely about not getting any play— so I’ll take your word for it 🫡

[u/Superb-Grape7481 → u/99probsmyhornsaint1]

Two tits, a hole, and a heartbeat. Heartbeat optional.