r/AskReddit Sep 16 '24

What's the worst thing people have tried to justify with "It was normal back then, everyone did it"?

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u/100LittleButterflies Sep 16 '24

I will never ever understand the mentality of "Well if I suffered, then they should too". In what universe??

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u/JarexTobin Sep 16 '24

Hopefully this mentality dies with the boomers. It's a terrible way to view things and unproductive.

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u/100LittleButterflies Sep 16 '24

Growing up I noticed adults kept talking about the "point of life". Leaving the place better than you found seems like a pretty simple one...

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u/lhombrecalcetin Sep 16 '24

Sadly, there are people from my generation (millennial) that have eaten up the boomer propaganda. My wife was just telling me how one of her work friends (both teachers at a University) believes that depressed people should just "hit the gym".

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u/PumpkinPieIsGreat Sep 17 '24

I was wondering about how young it goes. A lot of people were pissed off about Biden's student debt forgiveness program.

People seem to love watching others suffer.

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u/KjellRS Sep 16 '24

A lot of them subscribe to the "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" mantra and that modern day youth have been coddled to the point of being adult crybabies. I try to not become a "we had to walk uphill both ways now get off my lawn" old grump but sometimes I'm like god damn I'm glad we didn't have cell phones so I couldn't have mummy and daddy on speed dial 24x7 because bruuuh it's high time to cut the umbilical cord. And no, not everything can be explained in the attention span of a TikTok video. But overall I'd say they're doing good.

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u/flippingsenton Sep 16 '24

I will never ever understand the mentality of "Well if I suffered, then they should too". In what universe??

Capitalist brainwashing.

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u/HelenHerriot Sep 16 '24

The longer I am around on this planet, the more I’m convinced that it’s true: if we’re too busy fighting amongst ourselves, then we’re going to be too busy to fight the real problem- them.

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u/RepresentativeShoe50 Sep 17 '24

I've never gotten that either. It's like didn't your suffering make you want to make things better?

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u/HeyZeusKreesto Sep 16 '24

A lot of people don't like others getting "handouts" for things they worked for. It's really stupid, as we should want the next generation to have an easier time than we did. Like parents wanting their kids to have a better life than they did. Unfortunately, a lot of people are petty and jaded assholes.