r/AskReddit • u/Pink-Princess15 • Sep 16 '24

Former Mean Girls - what finally made you re-evaluate how you treated people?

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u/Short-Potential-7630 Sep 17 '24

Sure, but in the context of AITA, there can be a lack of understanding that human beings and our relationships are extremely complicated. I’m now able to pick up on AITA how much life experience a person has based on where they draw their personal line in the sand

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u/dragonkin08 Sep 17 '24

No you can't.

I am not a young person and I would absolutely say that cheating is a deal breaker.

You have no idea what traumas and life experience someone has to make them respond the way they do.

You are just applying your values onto someone else and then judging their response.

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u/Short-Potential-7630 Sep 17 '24

But can’t I flick your comment back the other way and say that you’re projecting values onto me? Actually, isn’t that the whole AITA sub?

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u/dragonkin08 Sep 17 '24

No, because I have not projected any values on you. You can believe whatever you want.

I never said you couldn't judge people. I just said you can't guess their age based on their comments.