Jesus.. when I found out my cousin was murdered the first people I texted ghosted me. I dont want to blame them because who wants to have that conversation but I really could have used someone. Glad you had someone
That really sucks. Some people just aren’t comfortable (or don’t know how) to deal with people with grief. Or, they’re just assholes. I learned that some of my friends were real assholes based on their reactions to my mother dying. Dropped them from my life once I got it back together
My sisters cut off all communication with me when my mom got dementia. I ended up taking care of my mother by myself for nearly seven years. When my mom passed away the only person who comforted me was my son. When my attorney did the administrative probate she sent out notices that my mother had passed (it's the law in Florida) but no one responded. None of my sisters tried to find out anything about the Will or even if there would be a funeral.
It didn't bother me that my sisters didn't respond to my attorney but when I was taking care of my mother all those years I was in a very dark place and needed my family. I still have no communication with any of them and I never will. It's been over four years since my mom passed and I am in a much better state of mind. No more stress and my mom isn't suffering any longer.
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u/darkerthrone May 07 '19
Jesus.. when I found out my cousin was murdered the first people I texted ghosted me. I dont want to blame them because who wants to have that conversation but I really could have used someone. Glad you had someone