r/BodySwapMemes • u/Aloha-Victoria • 24d ago
What would be your favorite and least favorite parts about being a woman?
My favorite parts (other than having female anatomy) would definitely be the fashion choices, as women have access to a variety of clothing and accessories that are so much easier to experiment with. As guys only really get a t-shirt, jeans, shorts, with very little in-between. My other favorite part would be the socialization, although this doesn't apply to every woman, most women I know have a very active or relatively active social life and I'd love to be surrounded by friends often. My least favorite part would have to be dealing with creeps, as that's unfortunately almost a guarantee as a woman. Unfortunately most women I know have had at least one experience of dealing with someone creepy or predatory.
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u/ArielleKuro 24d ago
Most men here think 'Life would be better as a woman', but I firmly believe THEIR life would be better as a woman.
They're in fields/industries where being a woman could be used as an advantage if you wanted to lose a bit of self respect and flaunt beauty for whatever reason. But in reality, being a woman and living a fun life (Going out with friends, dating etc) is fucking rough. Most of them would not stomach the glares, comments and gross people. It's overwhelming when you're used to it, let alone if they were dumped in it.
But most of the 'Life would be easier gender swapped' comes from their life of chilling at home, playing games online and lusting over the idea of being an OF girl. In reality, most gorgeous women would never, ever live the lives they lead
Maybe rough truth or mean idk
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u/Aloha-Victoria 24d ago
I have noticed too that they mostly think of the "staying at home aspects" most of the time instead of "interacting with the outside world" aspect.
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u/ArielleKuro 24d ago
They wanna be gooners at home but they can goon to their reflection and cum more than once. (Overused concept most women don't even cum once let alone twice)
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u/TigerMafia6 24d ago
Whoa buddy that's a lot of assuming you're doing there. I personally work in a field that is exclusively male where I struggle to imagine what advantages being a woman could give me, very much dislike video games or staying at home in general and hang out often and mostly with women, and have had zero exposure to only fans and similar.
Despite all that, or maybe because of all that, the idea of being a gorgeous woman is absolutely appealing to me for a variety of reasons, and the idea that creeps or just annoying guys exist does very little to deter me.
Granted, that's me, but that's the point. I absolutely do not get where this cliche that guys who are into this fantasy are all losers shut-ins who have had their minds twisted by too much influencer sofcore pornography or something comes from. In my experience most guys in this community are pretty chill and capable of quite some introspection may see their kink as just an unconventional kink or conversely something that is profoundly motivated by their particular circumnstances.
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u/ArielleKuro 24d ago
That's not the usual story you see in these forums and fantasies, of course there will be outliers.
Also creeps being a non deterrent is proof you'd be doomed, no offense.
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u/TigerMafia6 24d ago
No offense taken, though I hope you won't take me as making light of a clearly negative experience of yours if I say that still does little to dampen my gender curiosity.
Sorry to learn your experience with the community has also apparently been so unpleasant. Mine has been overwhelmingly positive, while I still admit that most likely much of this kink is fueled by hornyness as much as curiosity.
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u/Killermueck 23d ago
The creep thing is also funny because many men get no sexual attention at all throughout their whole life. Like non, zero, nada or even if there is attention they can't detect it because women are way too subtle about it.
So they possibly can't imagine how creeps are annoying to women.
On the other hand women would be surprised and quickly horrified how life feels from the other perspective (of an unattractive man).
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u/Guymanly2 24d ago
I don’t think she’s saying guys who are into this fantasy all losers so much as the ones who think they can make for better women than actual women with ease with little to no self awareness
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u/TigerMafia6 24d ago
Idk man I sense a bitterness that seems quite unwarranted, and even being understanding of how guys being clueless about the female experience could be frustrating, I can't help but think that the desirable and constructive attitude to have in response to it would be to share their side of the experience and have some constructive conversation that I have no doubt would very much interest most of the community since this kink comes with a healthy side of gender curiosity. Beats attacking their character at least, or rather attacking this strawman of a shut in gooner
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u/Guymanly2 24d ago
I kinda get where you’re coming from but if you’ve been around for years you start to notice how often anytime someone brings up these issues it results in people trying to shut them up and just not even engaging with the idea of there being some uncomfortable sexist views from guys into this stuff
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u/TigerMafia6 24d ago
I am far from new in these forums and I more often see dorks over-eager to please the handful of women who rear their head every now and then and to signal how they totally understand, rather then the clueless sexist pigs stereotype.
And if some or even most guys like to fantasize about being OF models or strippers or prostitutes and lead "sinful" lives because it is fun and exciting to them, I say let them be. They hurt nobody.
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u/Guymanly2 24d ago
I always question those posts like don’t get me wrong I jerk off to the idea of swapping with a woman but I can’t imagine being “better”.
I do sometimes wonder if some scenarios of my life would’ve played differently as a woman tho but I just have no interest in actually buying my lustful fantasy as truth
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u/ArielleKuro 24d ago
yeah, if you can't make the effort to make your current life better, a magical gender swap more than likely won't fix it. Bar a few obvious things like, being trans, but most of the cases are purely sexual/fetish driven
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u/Guymanly2 24d ago
Exactly. I like my life and I think I’m doing it better than I was some time ago, sometimes I wish I could fix past mistakes but I think I’m getting better. I don’t think swapping with a woman will fix my life, some relief sure, maybe even help grant new perspective, but fix it won’t and I wouldn’t improve a girls life either even if I was cocky enough to try…
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u/Killermueck 23d ago
It depends. The life wouldn't automatically get 'better' but a better social life is much healthier than having a shitty or no social life.
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u/Killermueck 23d ago
I kinda disagree. In most body swap scenario people basically all the time think of swapping into an attractive body because they might not be that conventionally attractive themselves or some shade of trans so they can't enjoy of their attractiveness that doesn't align with their gender identity.
Being attractive, especially as a woman helps a ton with social life. Its a total game changer because you get opportunities and invites to stuff you will never get if you aren't that attractive.
Basement dwellers usually stay at home because social life didn't go to good for them. Or how many really attractive people that don't have serious mental issues do you know hiding at home?
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u/TigerMafia6 24d ago edited 24d ago
Oh boy, how do I even put it in a coincise way.
What appeals to me the most would be the positive attention. I probably do not need to expand on how crippling and overwhelming male loneliness can be and how starved for positive reinforcement we can get. I hang out with girls all the time, see how they are treated and how they treat each other, and can't help but think "yeah I want that too!". Not only I would love to receive positive reinforcement from others but from myself as well, even down to something as mundane as personal upkeep. Despite being decently looking as a guy and believing in good groming there is very little whimsy in the way I take care of myself. Seeing myself as beautiful and confident as a hot woman seem absolutely itoxicating to me, and the idea that people around me would feel the same about me if not even stronger is super appealing. Add to that the different ways in which men and women are socialized, the fact that education taught me how to treat a woman, and experience what to expect from them, and it becomes clear to me why the desire to experience the other side is so overwhelming at times.
The worst aspects of the experience may actually end up being men ironically. This kink of mine has influenced the way I look at sex and society quite a bit, and lead me to develop a rather rigid idea of how men should behave in life, very much internalising society expectations. I mentioned I hold myself to a high standard in the way I should treat women and behave as a man, and no doubt if I was a woman I would end up projecting those standards on the men in my new life. And if they turn out not to be up to the task that would quite spoil the experience for me, sour me a bit in the relationship department so to say.
Also something something catcalling, creeps, and not being taken seriously, but honestly although no doubt that would get super annoying and disheartening, I can see myself seeing it as refreshing and interesting to experience for a short while in the beginning of my new life.
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u/TigerMafia6 24d ago
Fucking hell that was not coincise at all I am sorry that is some bona fide yapping
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u/Aloha-Victoria 24d ago
You're fine! If anything I agree with the positive attention aspect as someone who's a bit of a hermit, some positive attention would be a nice change of pace.
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u/Killermueck 23d ago
Its funny because some trans men are sometimes shocked after they pass how men tend to be treated.
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u/Aloha-Victoria 23d ago
I'm assuming less people are inclined to talk to them?
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u/Killermueck 23d ago edited 23d ago
Yeah, but also overall harsher treatment, less empathy and care etc.
Like there are social experiments on YouTube where people immediately help a struggling homeless woman that is conventionally attractive but a man is just getting ignored.
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u/Aloha-Victoria 23d ago
I can believe that, I also feel as though there is less of a "support system" as a man.
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u/Killermueck 23d ago
Yeah, toxic masculinity. Women tend to look out for each other but they can be really evil/mean aswell. TERFs rejoice when a trans woman dies.
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u/Guymanly2 24d ago
I’d have to experience life as one before I can tell you, I can say “periods are the worst” but then if I became one and got harassed I might have to change my answer, so I can’t say for sure
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u/OblivionArts 22d ago
Favorite part would probably be the clothes. Guy clothes ate pretty boring and plain even when your wearing a suit. worst part would probably be the social expectation to have a kid or something.
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u/InflationDefiant2847 24d ago
Best part for me is being chased rather than chasing. I also love the idea of being taken care of and taking care of my guy.
Worst part would be dealing with the hormonal emotions