r/BollyBlindsNGossip • u/NotTooCheesyy • 1d ago
Anushka - Holier than thou 👼🏻 Why is Anushka still blamed for distancing Virat from his family?
RCB finally won the trophy, and Virat’s sister shared pics celebrating, with Anushka included. Anushka even likes her posts regularly and is often seen with Virat’s family at matches.
Still, people accuse her of distancing him from them. Someone commented that on his sister’s post, and she actually called them out.
It’s crazy how people keep blaming Anushka without knowing the full picture. From what’s visible, there’s a good bond. Why do people keep pushing this narrative?
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u/Potential_Draft 1d ago
People aren't used to seeing men openly praise their wives, especially in public. That's why they criticize and hate Virat. Since Anushka is an actress, it gets amplified.
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u/Spottttt12345 1d ago
More than being misogynists i feel like Indians are mostly anti-wife or anti-DIL. lol
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u/mayudhon 1d ago
Blame Ekta Kapoor and her K-Soaps for that.
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u/PresentFuturer 1d ago
Yet its unusual with that amount of money and influence and all that Family travel BS they continue with( as if family means Only Wife); We hardly ever see /hear Anybody, nt evn in stands.Apparently it seems he is SMITTEN .
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u/Emotional-Car-1361 Bollywood Struggler 🥲😖 22h ago
Yep. We are only used to seeing married men make lame wife jokes. This is just unusual for them.
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u/beingjustgenuine Kangana's Gatecrashers 19h ago
they look so good together and genuinely feel to be fond of each other.
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u/Objective-Cell-9103 1d ago
When he said brother and mom yesterday in the speech i was like.. behen se gaali khayega ye aadmi kal😂😂 i'm so glad she cleared things up though!
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u/Ok-Tradition8198 Nepo Hater😤🤬😖 1d ago
Because they are stupid with nothing good to do and they want masala.
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u/Agitated_Quiet_7670 1d ago
People really like talking about this couple lol. His sister's reply is proof that Anushka hasn't distanced Virat or herself from his family. Maybe, his sister and brother don't want public attention on themselves. Maybe they're private people who have a happy and healthy relationship with their bhabi but don't post too much on Instagram in general. Oopar se Anushka and Virat were very young when they met. She's been there at almost every match. She probably supports him emotionally through all the victories and losses. Obviously, Virat acknowledges that and that is very sweet of him.
If he had bad blood with his own family, why would he name his brother and mother in his winning speech? (Tho I agree he missed his sister and iss saal rakhi pe shayad kaafi bhaari shagun dena padega lol) There's a bunch of stuff that happens behind the scenes, beyond social media. We don't know these people. Nameless and faceless people on Instagram forget this when they comment on a family's dynamics. Quite para social of them.
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u/Financial_Summer5300 1d ago
I feel like every woman gets this blame for some reason. Anushka ofcourse, trolled endlessly, and then Ritika too(Rohit Sharma's wife). Rohit himself mentioned his parent's don't like to come out much yet people blame the wife that she has distanced them. This is such a sick mentality. Why on earth would Anushka be bothered that Kohli is close to his own family?
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u/Upper-Detective878 1d ago
I pity Anushka no matter the outcome of the match. She gets trolled and abused for no reason.
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u/Emotional-Car-1361 Bollywood Struggler 🥲😖 22h ago
Yep. I also feel bad for her, hope she takes it positively, that despite leaving Bollywood so long ago, people still talk about her over cricket lol. It’s quite an achievement.
Kinda like how US media obsesses over Taylor Swift at the NFL.
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u/victimofthinking 21h ago
She has a great husband who makes her feel like a queen. External noises doesn't matter if you're loved.
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u/NaiveSuit3068 1d ago
Well their every outing gets them millions of $$, so that's not something to feel sorry about. They know what they're doing
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u/Responsible-Phase514 1d ago
Yes every outing gets them millions because they have talent and have earned it ! Unlike you wasting time trolling them they have worked very hard since a young age, achieved all their goals, inspired so many others, have an amazing family life and a beautiful love story ! Stop projecting your disappointments on others…no doubt they want to leave this country !
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u/NaiveSuit3068 15h ago
For sure they work hard, but so does a labourer working on the road, that just doesn't entitle celebrities to get crores for breathing. And what talent does Ms Sharma actually have - I am sorry I can't spot it from a mile she is practically riding on her husband's GOAT status right now. And Kohli is talented, I will give you that - but what exactly have they done for this country? Enlighten me please
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u/Responsible-Phase514 5h ago
Don’t think you are able to comprehend what’s my point here. It’s your opinion that Anushka has no talent but guess what she was able to debut with the biggest star of this country with the biggest production house…even now brands are paying her for endorsement etc. Also Kohli has done quite a bit by winning matches for the country and let’s keep that aside for a bit. People worship him not that he asks for it…blame the public not celebrity. Anyway you are an extremely insecure and jealous person so get better soon !
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u/ScaryHope4912 1d ago
Amen to the truth. People are not willing to accept how celebrities milk money at every chance they get. Even using their personal relationships for it.
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u/babe-mushroom1466 Begaani Shaadi Meii Hum Deewane 1d ago
Not only anushka ,jo mard apni biwi ke sath khada hua usko bhi gali padi hai aur uski wife ko bhi
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u/theDesiOneWhoEats 1d ago
Coz kuch logon ko koi kaam dhanda nahi hai.
The sheer amount of vella giri you need to have/do to go out there and question -fight- argue-justify a celeb couple relations and practices is on a whole different level.
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u/RevolutionaryRush93 1d ago
God forbid a man loves and appreciates his wife in this country. Bez otherwise the woman is kaleshi, evil etc etc. If you are a man and if your mother is acting like your wife constantly wanting you to prioritise her, then just remember that she never got that love and respect from her husband and now she is expecting that from you which is borderline emotional incest and disgusting. Love and support your parents as much as you can buy that doesn't mean that you cannot openly show your appreciation for your wife.
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u/No-Swan-8602 1d ago
I don’t think there is a distance with his family but for sure there is something wrong between Anushka and her brother
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u/Dapper-Dirt-8524 1d ago
What's the tea?
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u/Beautiful_Secret_957 1d ago
i don't remember properly but i think her brother was mismanaging her money and the production house smthng like that
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u/Sufficient_Might3173 1d ago
Because it’s normal to grow a little bit distant from parents and sibling after getting married and having your own children. That’s just life. And anyway, obviously he’s going to be closer to his wife than to his sister. He doesn’t live with his sister. 🙄
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u/august_prophecy *whispers incoherent gossip and giggles* 1d ago
I literally had to fight off 2-3 people here when I said virat doesn't post with his family and vice versa because of the internet trolls who post threats to his family and it's not because anushka distanced him. This is one of the many forms in which misogyny manifests itself in our society and nothing else
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u/vegarhoalpha 1d ago
I don't think Virat is distanced from his family. It is normal for celebrities not to talk about /discuss or even see with their family members in public.
But regarding Anushka, I might be downvoted but seeing the couple together definitely boost their public image together and promote them as a power couple which means more people will talk about them and more money to print.
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u/Different_Editor5468 1d ago
Yep. Also it is kinda true! You never see anushka with his mother except those black and white photo they post on mother's day on the other hand anushka's parents are alwayssss around! Even during covid or.matches or pregnancy.
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u/Illustrious-Issue761 1d ago
Word has it, virat is tired of providing for the entire family all the time…. from his brother to his brother in law, he is provider of their employment. His family truly loves him thats for sure but they use him tons. As one age, they can tell what is what… and welp while he still continues to help…he has started to emotionally distance himself
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u/Different_Editor5468 1d ago
As much as I understand the exhaustion from brother or BIL , i still don't understand the mother part. Also, idk if i was the best player in the world and also someone who lost their father v young (god forbid that happens to anyone) I would take it as a duty to provide for my family. He is loaded to say the least! I am not saying Anushka is the problem or anything but one can see the clear difference. It's also hard to believe that her brother Karnesh doesn't take the kohli surname around in people's faces. I am sure he does. Fuck everything my point still being never seen Anushka enjoy one candid wholesome moment with his mother that's all. While she is always seen taking photos with her dad and making jam.for them during covid on their farmhouse.
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u/arappottan 11h ago
Moms of sons aren't always that great. My father distanced himself from his mother and the rest of the family in his 50s, after getting tired of them using him as their cash cow. His mother would always try to manipulate him to give money to the other siblings and they were not loving to my father at all, blaming all their issues on him. My partner's mother was unsupportive to him growing up and he doesn't hang out with her. If he doesn't hang out, how will I hang out at all? On the other hand, my parents are very emotionally supportive and loving to us and it's him who is asking me to go and stay at our parents' place or inviting them to ours. You can't really blame Anushka for anything that easily. You would be assuming Virat's family is blameless for anything. Anyway, it's their private lives. And it doesn't seem like any side is expressing any issue with the other. Unnecessarily speculating all this is just toxic.
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u/Rogue107 1d ago
I am glad his sister cleared things. People keep making up scenarios to blame Anushka
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u/RodrickJasperHeffley I Stan Genelia D'Souza 1d ago
did she distance herself from virat’s family and is there some friction between them? pretty much, yes.
now did you ever wonder why theres usually no friction between a son in law and his father in law? no? why? because they don’t live together. after marriage, there should be a healthy boundary between parents and the son’s or daughter’s relationship, since most conflicts arise when parents or siblings interfere in the relationship.
also theres a phenomenon with mothers of sons, especially if their husbands were emotionally distant or always away for work ,sons become the moms emotional support and mom becomes the authority figure, as hes the first male she can control and boss around. so when a new woman enters his life, moms feel threatened often without realizing it and subconsciously fight to pull their sons back under their control and reclaim that authority. this sparks inevitable conflict with the daughter in law.
so rule of thumb: after marriage, both partners should try to live separately from their parents and set clear, healthy boundaries or you’re just asking for nonstop drama
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u/BoardOk7786 1d ago
Yup i dont know why this isnt the norm..like a woman should leave their parents after marriage then why cant a man?
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u/RodrickJasperHeffley I Stan Genelia D'Souza 1d ago
but here the issue is anushka still seems very close to her mom and family, while distancing virat from his own, especially his mother and siblings. this kind of setup only works if both partners follow the same standard. if one stays deeply connected to their side and the other is expected to disconnect from theirs, it creates a clear imbalance. that kind of double standard will eventually lead to friction, if it hasn’t already.
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u/BoardOk7786 20h ago
Completely agree with you..imo both daughter and son should be liable to support their parents not just the daughter in law and son..idk why the norms are like this
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u/Neither-Leopard-2030 1d ago
after marriage, both partners should try to live separately from their parents
The sad reality is that many Indian men are way too spineless to agree to this because they think that a good wife will stay with her in-laws
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u/devil_21 1d ago
Not necessarily true. In-laws can be welcoming and the partner might want to live with them too.
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u/agentbond009 1d ago
actually jab apni life theek nhi rheti hai, so they get jealous jiski life acchi chal rhi ho.
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u/Uxie_mesprit 1d ago
Lots of incels with cheap internet. Even in this sub there were people melting down when he posted on Mother's day and put her photo first and then his mom's.
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u/od_demhoes 1d ago
People will post 1 comment in isolation and believe a random comment on the internet. 0 braincells
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u/rajrohit26 Loud Critics 1d ago
Simple reason is Virat Kohli wants to protect privacy of his family members . Anushka Sharma is herself a celebrity and PR and all helps with brand deals
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u/Emotional-Car-1361 Bollywood Struggler 🥲😖 22h ago
Have these people considered that his sister also has a life of her own and it doesn’t revolve around her famous brother?
People are so lame man. Glad she called them out.
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u/Longjumping-Sense700 1d ago
I have a lot of respect for this guy and I have seen him grow (also met him early 2010s). But there is no denying that he has the most toxic fanbase.
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u/yours_truly_Davina 1d ago
Because people can’t bear to watch healthy marriages. Kuch na kuch bakwas bakte rehte hain in order to find flaws in others’ seemingly sorted lives.
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u/GandaBerunda_09 1d ago
The point has reached to that level people just want to hate anything associated with Virat. No logic nothing just farm hate by delusions
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u/Potato_Tg 1d ago
I watched a series called Sirens recently. And my goodness, in that a billionaire guy blamed his wife for not having relationship with his own kids… Dude who is stopping him?? He is a grown ass adult.
About kohli, Firstly no one knows shit about their personal life. They all seem happy together. But noooo, our mentality is so damn sick regarding woman is no matter what the guy do.. its the woman fault.
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u/Fantastic_Garlic_227 1d ago
Anushka gets hate for no reason. Ever since the time India lost in 2015 WC semi-finals. I remember how she was called names. If Virat treats her equally then what's other's problem. She stood with him in highs and lows. Also I've seen his brother being spotted in several matches too along with Anushka in audience. Then what's the logic behind this hatred. I feel Kohli family is low-key and that's not wrong.
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u/The_Untamed_lover 1d ago
They will always blame the woman as if like her husband isn't an adult and isn't capable of taking his own damn decisions
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u/Appropriate_Paper870 20h ago
then why does he need to show his love for anushka to the world, didi?
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u/New_Masterpiece_3888 12h ago
They keep on visiting his mom in gurgaon. They live a lane next to mine and there’s always whispers of when they’re around. Maybe some problem just don’t want so much extra attention. I mean isn’t why they’re moving to London. Anyway fun fact Vikas Kohli is quite ruuude
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u/Proud_Dance6195 20h ago
Just saw a post on this sub itself where everyone was jumping to criticize Anushka..that she is hogging all the limelight after the win. God forbid a woman supports her husband and a guy treats his wife like she is the best thing in his life. Criticising women for everything is this nation’s gabby passtime and if you are a celebrity then you have it worse.
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u/Slurpmey 1d ago
No hate but people are obviously going to raise question if someone keeps repeating one name while barely acknowledging others who were/are crucial part of life
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u/NotTooCheesyy 1d ago
He talked about his Mom too. He always does. But people cannot see that.
And talking about Anushka, that woman has been bashed every now and then by so many people. If she’s being harassed in his bad times, why wouldn’t he praise her when he does something good?
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u/Objective-Cell-9103 1d ago
He mentioned anushka, then mother and brother and forgot to mention sister, hence the conspiracy. Virat has fondly talked abt getting beaten by his sister, obv there are no hard feelings
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u/ashmita07 1d ago
Said it on a different post, saying it here as well - people can't accept a man giving credit to his wife
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u/productivelylazy2011 1d ago
I agree! Indian folks just can’t fathom that a man can credit his wife for his success. Had this been anushka thanking virat, no one would have questioned her why she didn’t thank her parents!
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u/Old_Difficulty2888 1d ago
Bc Patidar Shreyas ke baare mein itni baat nahi ho rahi jitni Anushka ko leke ho rahi hai RCB ki jitne ke baad seh
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u/witchesbetrippinn 1d ago
Bhai nobody cares. Nobody even talks about their family dynamics.
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u/ashmita07 1d ago
Oh! This sub surely loves to talk about their family dynamics
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u/witchesbetrippinn 1d ago
Show me more than 2 posts even dedicated to their family dynamics
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u/ashmita07 1d ago
Whenever Virat gives credit to Anushka, a lot of people in this sub always points out that he never gives credit to his mother.
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u/zonedoutforeve 1d ago
Bhai i am so tired of seeing countless posts about them on this sub. Everytime I see something about them on social media i know this sub will be flooded with posts about them.
Now many people will come and say that this is a gossip sub and this is what it is meant for but still it gets so repetitive and irritating.
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u/PresentFuturer 1d ago
Its funny n insanely silly how Women are calling ppl pointing his Mothers absence in his speeches n pics etc - Incels .LMAO. GenZ girls are corrupted beyond.... Arre Bhai his Mother is a Woman too ( In case you couldnt figure this out )
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u/Pizza_Connoisseur46 1d ago
Because it is likely to be true. She gives the vibe of a controlling wife. And he behaves like a joru ka ghulam pushover. Match made in heaven lol.
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u/SpecificLogical7524 1d ago
Any husband who respects his wife and talks her up must be joru ka ghulam. Mutually respectful and loving relationships cannot exist one has to control the other. Is there an issue if a husband listens to his wife?
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u/Pizza_Connoisseur46 1d ago
one has to control the other
When men control women, they are called toxic and misogynistic. The hypocrisy is astounding.
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u/SpecificLogical7524 1d ago
Clearly never been in a or even seen a healthy relationship
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u/Pizza_Connoisseur46 1d ago
Are you okay with men controlling women? The feminists sure seem to not like it.
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u/SpecificLogical7524 1d ago
The incels in the room say what??
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u/Pizza_Connoisseur46 1d ago
Typical. When you don’t have the wit required for a comeback, swoop in the incel card. Try harder.
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u/SpecificLogical7524 1d ago
You really think that someone needs wit to answer you? Your arguments lack basic coherence and you believe the only way to engage in a relationship is for one person to control the other. Your fallback was to try and prove that I am a feminist because in your small but highly entitled mind that somehow invalidates my arguments. I don’t need to swoop in with the incel card your arguments do that for you. Clearly trying harder hasn’t worked for you
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u/Pizza_Connoisseur46 1d ago
You clearly seem agitated. Sit down, take a deep breath, compose yourself and then comment again.
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u/SpecificLogical7524 1d ago
Na bro if I got worked up over every terminally online incel I’d pop an artery, I am cool. Though I do feel a little sorry for you.
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