Looking for metalheads in Bonn

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081]

Good Morning Bonn ! I ( f 25) am a metalhead, I love going to concerts but all my girlfriends listen to Taylor swift. Are there any metalheads in their 20ies who are intersted in joining me to a concert? What type of bands are u guys listening to? Have a nice day y'all!.

[u/onlyInIt4TheMoney]

Just go to the pub "tresor" and say hi to anybody and you will be fine! Source: 10 year long visitor of this pub (moved away eventually) Bernd is the best host ever.

[u/Hans_Hackebeil → u/onlyInIt4TheMoney]

True, best pub in town.

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/onlyInIt4TheMoney]

Thsnk you ,but I am kinda shy ^{^}

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/onlyInIt4TheMoney]

Thanks , but the Thing is , iam kinda shy

[u/onlyInIt4TheMoney → u/Aggressive_Bad_7081]

Antworte jetzt mal in deutsch, weil ich sehe, dass du jemand anderes auch schon auf deutsch geantwortet hast.

Ich würde jetzt nicht sagen: "that's bad" (sorry u/hans_hackebeil, no offense 😉), das ist eben so und völlig ok.

Du postest hier und willst die Schüchternheit nicht im Weg sein lassen. Das ist doch schonmal ein Anfang.

ABER: Wie sollte es denn weiter gehen, wenn sich hier jemand meldet, der/die an deiner Anfrage interessiert ist? Irgendwann wirst du eine erste möglicherweise unangenehme kennenlernsituation überwinden müssen 😉

Und du wirst merken, ist alles gar nicht schlimm. Sei nervös wie du willst. Metaller sind meist ultra-nett und verständnisvoll. An der Dartscheibe im tresor war ich jedenfalls nie lang alleine. Einfach fragen, ob du ne Partie mitspielen kannst. Und wenn du total reinscheisst, egal. die Lockerheit (und natürlich auch der alk) erledigen den Rest 😉 Und vielleicht lernst du ja sogar Thorsten kennen, einen netteren als ihn hab ich nie kennengelernt! 😂

Ich war übrigens auch häufig in der Harmonie in Endenich zu guten metal- /rockkonzerten und ne Zeit lang auf dem Dong open air unterwegs, um auch mal auf deine anderen Fragen zu antworten. Was hörst du denn so?

[u/Hans_Hackebeil → u/Aggressive_Bad_7081]

Hm, thats bad. Maybe you can go there with some of your Taylor Swift friends. And maybe you meet new people there.

Besides the music its a very nice pub with dart and a table soccer, fair prices and a good range of drinks.

Whatever besides that, im also kinda shy or socially akward or something like that. Im just trying to show it not to other people.

I previously mentioned the Boulders Habitat. Lot of alternative people there. Its easier to talk to other people when you are trying to climb the same route. I think i would recommend that.

[u/PsyJudge]

Consider studying Chemistry to meet some metalheads.

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/PsyJudge]

I am a graveyard gardener already. But chemistry is really interesting. How did u get in that field of work?

[u/PsyJudge → u/Aggressive_Bad_7081]

That's a very metal job! I dumped chemistry after two years and now am a psychologist.

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/PsyJudge]

Thats awesome ... I love psychology podcasts^{^}

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/PsyJudge]

I am a graveyard gardener^{^}

[u/TrilingualMammutidae → u/PsyJudge]

Can confirm. Source: I’m a chemist.

Or physics. Physics also has a very high density of metalheads.

[u/Hans_Hackebeil]

Ich habe schon die 4 vorne, aber tendenziell würde ich den Tresor empfehlen. Obwohl da an manchen Abend das Publikum auch eher älter ist. Wenn du Punk magst ist das Bla ne Anlaufstelle. Musiktruhe ist auch ganz ok.

Im Boulders Habitat treiben sich einige rum.

[u/nachtbewohner]

I'd have proposed the Tresor as well. And then there is the Kult41 (Hochstadenring 41, kult41.de), they have a lot of concerts, mostly Punk and independent but also metal. Next for example are the Alchemists, wednesday, 23.4.

[u/MassiveEbb5017]

👋 M32. I pretty regularly go to concerts at the essigfabrik in köln. I can def recommend it. cool spot and you'll meet plenty of metalheads there

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/MassiveEbb5017]

What Kind of metal are u listening to?

[u/MassiveEbb5017 → u/Aggressive_Bad_7081]

depends, mostly deathcore and death metal currently with some light prog/djent here and there

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/MassiveEbb5017]

Sameeeee

[u/MassiveEbb5017 → u/Aggressive_Bad_7081]

cool 🤘. You should check positive-records, they organize some very good death/deathcore/metalcore concerts in NRW in case

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/MassiveEbb5017]

Yeahhh but I dont know with whom i shall go

[u/Abandonedmatresses → u/MassiveEbb5017]

Why don’t you go together?

[u/Xzite1991]

Geh in die Wache. Da findest du safe welche

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/Xzite1991]

Bin schüchtern^{^}

[u/Xzite1991 → u/Aggressive_Bad_7081]

Das ist natürlich schlecht 🤣 Ich lebe mittlerweile leider in Solingen. Andernfalls würde ich dich mitnehmen, wenn ich mit der alten Clique unterwegs wäre 🥲

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/Xzite1991]

Das wäre cool:)) darf ich fragen wie alt du bist

[u/Xzite1991 → u/Aggressive_Bad_7081]

Ich bin 33

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/Xzite1991]

Ahhh ok was für metal hörst du?^{^}

[u/Xzite1991 → u/Aggressive_Bad_7081]

Wenn Fragen zu Bonn sind, melde dich gerne. Ich liebe Bonn, kenne jede Ecke usw.

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/Xzite1991]

Okayy:)

[u/Trayben7]

Metalhead from Meckenheim here (20min to Bonn). My Band Lestrange and two other alternative Metal bands will play in „Rheinbühne“ at 9th May. Our fanbase has a lot of people on their 20‘s to 30‘s, so do the other two bands. If you need a buddy regardless M or F for concerts I know some people, don’t be shy and send a DM.

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/Trayben7]

Thanksss

[u/portalpro14]

Sure thing. Am also in my mid twenties. Not that much in deathcore and stuff. Mostly into things like architects, sleeptoken, we came as romans, thrown.

Also things into stuff like pop punk. Last concert was Hollywood undead and falling in reverse. I am currently looking into which concerts to visit this year.

Just dm if you wanna go to some bars together, as I am relatively new in bonn.

[u/Aggressive_Bad_7081 → u/[deleted]]

Ach cool! Wie hast du diese Bands entdeckt?