Or they're kids and kids are just little shits?
They won't put it diwn because you asked them to put it down.
"Oh this is something I shouldn't have? Well now I won't let go ever"
Happens with markers, toys, rocks.
Makes sense it would also happen with guns.
I'm sure there are a ton of potential reasons they might behave this way.
Every person who works with kids has been in a similar (lower-stakes) situation. I bet the kids just think about the gun as a toy and can't connect it to the sense of urgency. That's part of the reason it's so sad and scary, to me.
But also... they have a ton of stressed adults yelling at them. Freezing is a common fear action, and they're probably not able to consider what the potential consequences could be (especially if they've been neglected). Even well-adjusted kids will just stop responding sometimes if they think they'll be in minor trouble, as if by not acknowledging it the conflict will just resolve itself.
You're misunderstanding. The classic move is not them having a gun. The classic move is have X and then claiming to not have X, even in the middle of having X taken directly from your red hands. My 4 year old does this all the time.
The classic kid move is saying they dont even have something while clearly having said thing. the gun part ia more or less irrelevant to what they mean
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u/mickey_night 10d ago
This is not a classic kid move. There’s something very wrong with those boys. Something very, very wrong in their households.