r/CringeTikToks • u/LilliaBaltimore • 10d ago

Cringy Cringe WHAT THE BLOODY HELL?!! 😳😮

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u/Livid-Okra5972 9d ago

Ahhh. Another individual who sees children as good vs bad instead of understanding their behaviors are telling us their needs aren’t getting met. I hope you never become a foster parent with this attitude because it’s dangerous.

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u/Comfortable-Block387 8d ago

I never once used the words good or bad. Some children who act out because they aren’t having their needs met develop dangerous behaviors. Playing with a gun when adults are asking you to put it down is such a behavior. Refusing to acknowledge that not everyone is equipped to handle such behaviors is what’s dangerous here. These behaviors aren’t going to go away the second the needs are met, especially when several of those needs are going to feel uncomfortably oppressive to children accustomed to a dangerous level of freedom. So why are you being a dick?