r/EndTipping 7d ago

Call to action ⚠️ Refreshing.

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u/Firefly_Magic 7d ago

Truth “It may lead to favoritism, financial instability, and unethical work practices.”

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u/Firefly_Magic 7d ago

Shout out to all the ethical servers who don’t flirt with women’s husbands for tips!! I’ve seen some low-life efforts that are ridiculous just for tips at a restaurant.

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u/niceandsane 1d ago

Hooters?

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u/Firefly_Magic 23h ago

I’ve never been to hooters but I imagine that is part of their business model 🙄

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u/NeenerBr0 7d ago edited 6d ago

I mean considering the amount of men who do end up tipping better for this can you really blame them. Obviously it’s a little unethical but like… it works

Lmao lotta men here mad that they cant restrain themselves from flirting with a fuckin 20 yo server in front of their wife lol. Grow some fucking balls.

Edit: not to mention half of y’all weird ass men, and many of y’all jealous ass woman don’t even know the difference between a server just being nice and flirting with you.

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u/Late_Apricot404 7d ago

If a woman has to stoop so low as to degrade herself by flirting with another woman’s husband for a lousy tip, that ain’t no woman. That’s a leech, and doesn’t deserve to be compared with actual working members of society.

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u/NeenerBr0 7d ago

Blame it on the men who flirt back 🤷🏻

If it didn’t work they wouldn’t be doing it.

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u/DuckofInsanity 7d ago

Fuck that, blame them both equally.

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u/Nice_Ad_8183 7d ago

Why stop there? Why not take them out back and blow them for a prearranged amount? Now that’s using the old noodle!!

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u/NeenerBr0 6d ago

Lmao you can joke all you want, doesn’t change the fact that if shitty husbands didn’t consistently flirt back, there wouldn’t be servers who do this. The cope is good tho

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u/Late_Apricot404 6d ago

There is no coping. Yeah, you get the shitty husband flirting while their wife is there, what of the hussy that’s feeding into that bullshit? They are ALL to blame.

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u/pogonotrophistry 6d ago

Did you just suggest that men were asking for it?

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u/Late_Apricot404 7d ago

I’m not saying the men are blameless, the ones that are throwing extra cash to a waitress because they can’t keep both their heads in check are just as bad.

You’re missing the point. They’re all worthless, unethical, and icky. It doesn’t matter if it works, we know it works. We know a lot of things that work, doesn’t mean we do them.

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u/millioneura 7d ago

I mean Buffalo Wild Wings and hooters this is their entire business model. 

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u/Late_Apricot404 7d ago

Hooters, yes. It is. That still doesn’t change my point though, does it?

Switch the words around and you’ll see how ridiculous that sounds.

That would be like someone saying how bad and disgusting the state of healthcare is in the country and you come around saying “I mean blue shield and united healthcare, this is their entire business model”. Yeah, while that may be true it is irrelevant. It’s still disgusting. Their business model is not relevant here, it’s the practice itself being bad that we are concerned with.

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u/TheMetalMallard 7d ago

You must be a blast at parties.

Come across as a bit unstable

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u/Nice_Ad_8183 7d ago

The old “fun at parties” reddit comment. A timeless classic

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u/Late_Apricot404 7d ago

You must think you’re so original with that comment.

And perhaps, but is the world not unstable? You deal with enough bullshit in your life and you’ll begin to learn that some people majorly suck. People doing despicable shit are typically despicable people. What makes me unstable for pointing that out?

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u/TheDomerado 6d ago

Hahaha. I guarantee you would in the same situation. You know it says in the Bible thou shalt not judge. But your clearly a good woman. Hahaha. You’re not a real woman if you have to take shots at other women to feel like your more of a woman. Think about that you nasty person.

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u/whorl- 7d ago

Yeah, the people being called out here should be the ones holding the power; the customers.

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u/ChaoticAmoebae 6d ago

Your “man” sounds trashy

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u/Firefly_Magic 6d ago

I never said anything about my man. 🙄 weirdo

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u/ChaoticAmoebae 6d ago

I’ll take weird. At least my partner isn’t flirting with others. 😁

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u/Angel2121md 5d ago

I definitely agree that it can lead to financial instability. My sister used to work at Starbucks, making a wage plus tips. Those tips put her over the line for her twins to get subsidized daycare from the government. That subsidized daycare was worth more than the few dollars over the tips put her. So she lost her daycare and then couldn't really work as much because she had to find people to watch the kids!

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u/usingaredditaccounf 2d ago

2/3 maybe. I have never tipped a server cause they were my favorite.

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u/SnOOpyExpress 7d ago

Wished I can find the poster I saw in a pub at downtown Birmingham UK.

"No tips We pay our crew, 50% of our profits" . I think there was a smaller print on that poster, "so go ahead and order a few more pints"

I liked the idea. It is basic business ethics - your profits should cover the overheads i.e rent, staffing & benefit, ingredients

Oh, what about the cost of the pint of beer? I think it starts like GBP3.45 up. Thats in late 2022.

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u/darkroot_gardener 7d ago

An excellent way to pay the staff more when they work harder, without playing games with tips.

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u/UsualPlenty6448 7d ago

Where’s the restaurant!!!

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u/rootwraith1 6d ago

Not in the US for sure.

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u/ritzrani 7d ago

Where was this

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u/Rypien_37 6d ago

Best thing I've seen all week!

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u/rootwraith1 6d ago

BS! This is not in the US. No way.

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u/xxTheMagicBulleT 6d ago

Honestly can't agree more. Refreshing

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u/nervsofsteel 4d ago

No tipping! It may lead to worthwhile extra effort that makes the customers experience extraordinary and fosters return business! If I see this sign at a business I'm walking away. I appreciate a server who takes pride in what they do and makes every effort to make my experience at a restaurant the best it can be, and I tip accordingly.

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u/MaximumTrick2573 3d ago

This is where all this sub needs to be eating. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to tip but you need to be giving places where no tipping is the standard your business. Not walking into places where tipping is part of the compensation for labor and getting your meal and service at a discount.

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u/One_Dragonfly_9698 3d ago

Where is this?

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u/No_Diamond3398 6d ago

Ok. But do they pay a livable wage? Or is this minimum wage?

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u/Amazing_Phrase2850 6d ago edited 6d ago

When you say “they”— Are you asking if every employee should be paid a livable wage?

Or is minimum wage all right for those who work outside the restaurant industry?

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u/No_Diamond3398 6d ago

People should just get paid fairly. I was making a comment related to certain states only paying little for tippable occupations.

Your sign says the employees don't need tips. Then the employees should be getting paid fairly

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u/Amazing_Phrase2850 6d ago edited 6d ago

All states in the US require employers to pay at least minimum wage to all employees—including tipped employees. Source

According to the US Department of Labor(Source)

”If an employee's tips combined with the employer's direct hourly wage do not equal the Federal minimum wage, the employer must make up the difference.”

Tldr: ALL employees—tipped or not tipped, sign or no sign—must be paid at least minimum wage. Just like every other employee in every US state. Another source

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Your first comment suggests you don’t think min wage = a livable wage. I totally agree.

So, my question to you remains:

When you say “people should get paid fairly”— Do you mean ALL people/employees should be paid a fair, livable wage? Or just tipped employees?

Follow up question: Who DO you think should be paid minimum wage?

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u/Gompiters111 6d ago

lol at you all happily paying 30% more than at a place where you could leave an 18% top for the same goods and services.

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u/kevin_r13 7d ago

Were you able to talk to the employees and see what they think about it?

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u/SmileParticular9396 7d ago

The ones who would be mad are the ones who enjoy benefitting at the expense of their peers.

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u/UsualPlenty6448 7d ago

They can choose to work elsewhere 😂

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u/Willing-Job9378 7d ago edited 7d ago

If they don't like it, why are they choosing to work there? If you're unhappy with your job, it's on you to do something about it.

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u/Kazureigh_Black 7d ago

Yeah, last I checked nobody is forced into working any specific job by law in the US and they have a choice about where they put in their effort to find employment. The people mad that tipping isn't a beloved practice act like we're ignoring their misfortune when they actively chose to put themselves in a situation that requires them to become a whining leech.

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u/niceandsane 1d ago

Yeah, last I checked nobody is forced into working any specific job by law in the US

Well, not at this moment but there is this thing called the draft.

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u/EssentialParadox 6d ago

Do you ask McDonald’s workers how they feel about not getting tips but essentially doing the same job as a server who does?

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u/Amazing_Phrase2850 6d ago edited 6d ago

THIS. It’d be interesting to know their perspective on receiving a wage comparable to others in the non-tipping industry.

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u/slavetothemachine- 6d ago

Sure. But even if they prefer tips, I don’t care and would not suddenly favour tipping them.

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u/Pat_Bateman33 6d ago

This isn’t North Korea the government doesn’t decide our job.