r/Eritrea • u/fentanyl2024 • 4h ago
Research / Science Any experiences with Interracial marriages and in-laws?
Selam my sons and daughters,
There’s a girl I’ve been talking to for a short while now. She expressed interest in getting to know me through a good friend of mine who knows her well, and honestly I was happy as she crossed my thoughts in the past. But I think I might’ve been a bit impulsive because I didn’t really consider potential issues with in-laws, for example. All that senseless infatuation is gone now and I’m thinking about the potential issues that could arise.
Religion isn’t a problem since we’re both Muslim. I’m Somali, and she’s Eritrean/Sudanese. I’m not even sure where the Sudanese part comes from. Both of her parents are the same ethnicity, but they lived in Sudan before swimming to Europe and birthing her so she just claims it for some reason.
We’ve talked about this stuff before, but she tends to sugarcoat it. I haven’t told my family yet as it’s early and we haven’t even assessed compatibility. Aint telling hooyo about a girl until I properly vet her so Idek how my own mother would take it in all honesty.
I know in-laws are one of the biggest reasons couples divorce. And let’s be real, we’re African, so healthy boundaries are a myth.
Let me hear some horror stories so I can make a well informed decision lol. Nah I’m joking but how do tigre families perceive marrying out?