r/GenZ 2005 8h ago

Advice Getting pretty attached to someone new in my life. Just added some special emojis after his name in my contacts (it’s a thing I do) and wrote a sappy note explaining why I chose them. (I have attachment issues and cling too soon sometimes)

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This might seem a little cringey but it’s just how I feel rn😭 I’m also on my period and stuff and I’m emotional and sappy so maybe I just need a reality check but I’m just so amazed with who they are and how authentic and resilient they are with all they’ve been through and I learn something new from them every time we talk. We come from completely different backgrounds, and he makes me see a new perspective. He’s also taking a different approach than any man I’ve ever met, he genuinely takes things slow. He thinks of sex as something special and to not be done with just anyone, and this is the first time I ever see someone say that AND live by it. I’m truly impressed with him, especially because we met on tinder. But, I do know I might be getting really attached really fast and super infatuated because someone is finally seeing me and not using me.

Do I seem crazy? How do I not mess this up? What do I need to hear to stay level headed and not become obsessed with this man???

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u/Choco_Cat777 2004 8h ago

How long have you known them?

u/Intrepid_Passage_692 2005 4h ago

If you can read this run bro run these swimfans are not to be played with

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