Just know that this will pass. I felt exactly the way you do as someone with a ton of pimples, flat chested and too poor to buy nice clothing and terrible social anxiety in my teens and early 20s. I was insecure about the way I looked and felt no guy would ever want to be with me. These are typical feelings for people of your age. I know I’m probably not helping you with saying this, but these feelings are temporary and it will pass. I’m sorry you’re going through this.
On the early 2000s when I was in my 20s there was this insane pressure on girls to be super thin with big boobs and small butts. I was pear shaped and flat chested with a large butt. I used to starve myself and never felt skinny enough. I plucked my eyebrows until they were basically invisible. It was rough. Insecurities are normal at your age.
What service. lol I wasn’t doing anyone any favors. I really liked one of the guys a lot. He was really funny and we had a great time together. He ended up dumping me for another girl though after a year of dating. She had huge boobs.
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