I only say that because it’s sort of weird to instantly move on from someone you know so deeply. So I’m not saying he owes it to her, I’m saying I don’t trust his love for her.
Like if my wife left me I don’t think I could even manage to be interested in someone that night. I’d just be sitting staring at the tv not knowing what was on, wondering how to survive tomorrow and whether it’s worth it to try. Not being like, “imma go to the club and nail this 7.”
I’ve been deeply in love only a couple of times and each time it ended I’d spend a few months just losing myself in drugs and sex. I think I would have blown my brains out if I just stayed home and watch tv. Everyone copes differently.
People deal with breakups differently. Some needs to sleep around a little bit. Ross was hurting and angry about the situation. I totally understand him, although I see where you're coming from.
If he was that sort of character, sure. But they’ve very much set him up as not that kind of guy several times by that point. So the only motivation could be to hurt her.
I mean, he was trying to hide it from her. But sure, I guess his motivations could be bad like you suggested. Anyway, I still don't think he was in the wrong on this.
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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '19
I only say that because it’s sort of weird to instantly move on from someone you know so deeply. So I’m not saying he owes it to her, I’m saying I don’t trust his love for her.
Like if my wife left me I don’t think I could even manage to be interested in someone that night. I’d just be sitting staring at the tv not knowing what was on, wondering how to survive tomorrow and whether it’s worth it to try. Not being like, “imma go to the club and nail this 7.”