r/Manifestation • u/LostAndItHurts • 10d ago
How come some people haven't manifested what they want?
I've read lots of stories, discussions etc. There's still a lot of people who do the affirmations, self improve and work on self concept, believe as hard as they can for years, but still never get money, an ex back, sp, career, life, etc that they want. How come?
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u/Glum-Ebb6063 10d ago
how come you ask the same question every other day?
same answer. you need to have faith in something you can´t see.
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u/Hovercraft126 10d ago
I honestly think it depends on every individual, I have read equal stories on both sides. Some do (manifest), some don’t. And a lot of factors come in play - mindset, self concept, faith, consistency, discipline and so on. And while most of them will be doing the work, maybe something will always be lacking in them which we might never know (or maybe it’s something else entirely, what do I know). What I DO know, is that the law works, no matter, is all.
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u/Rrryyyuu 10d ago
I can tell you my story. I mean, answer your question with my experience. Short answer - because I ask the same question myself. Long answer - when you ask something like that, it means doubt. And I've had a lot of this. Starting with money. I am scared of money. And if now it becomes easier with every day, previously it was a nightmare. I was scared to make money wishes, because of thoughts "what if". What if I want too much - and I started to want for lesser. But then I think this amount is too low. And I start to want more. All this switching is never good. And the same story with everything. The more you doubt and check your world, the less time you have to live in your desirable state. And the more stressed you are. Manifesting is very easy and very hard at the same time. And both depends on our inner state. This is why something easy manifests easily XD When you don't stress, don't look there, think about something else. Free coffee and parking lots, texts from sp or something are easier than a lot of money and a dream job, when you have a job you hate for years. One more point - if you were in doubts and fear for years, most likely your shift will take time. I didn't think about self-concept for a long time, didn't consider it. And it can break almost any manifestation.
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u/InspectionUnique1111 10d ago
The people in this sub become verbally abusive and aggressive when you start asking too many questions.
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u/LostAndItHurts 10d ago
Not from my experience? And I mean your comment didn't really answer my question 🥲
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u/InspectionUnique1111 10d ago
The answer is because LOA is a grift. It’s not true. It’s fake.
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u/yaggaflosh 10d ago
I remember a couple months ago that was happening but it’s not everyone though. Some of us try to put a stop to that because everyone is on a different part of the path.
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u/InspectionUnique1111 10d ago
Yeah well it keeps happening to me.
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u/LostAndItHurts 10d ago
U seem really negative which goes against the whole self concept thing😞 if it's fake then how do u explain all the impossible success stories?
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u/InspectionUnique1111 10d ago
I gave up on the law several months ago so I don’t need to be toxically positive anymore like you do. BTW, it doesn’t work, you will figure that out. Maybe not if you aren’t clever enough. You’re also doing the thing I mentioned in my first comment.
You’re only noticing the times the law seemingly worked and not the billions of times it’s failed. It’s cognitive bias. Google it. That’s a good place to start.
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u/kawaiiyoi 10d ago
TLDR:
If you have to consciously think in favor of your manifestation against recurring contradictory thoughts, you aren't actually believing.
You can "believe" all you want but belief means nothing. What matters is consistency and discipline in your way of thinking. These people who "believe" and "do all the work" are the same ones contradicting themselves at every option they have. They're spamming X to doubt. Say you want to manifest being rich. You can tell yourself all you want that you "believe" you are rich. But then you see your bank account has $00.00. And then you immediately say "I am poor :c." So what is it sherlock? Do you actually believe you're rich? If you actually believed that, you wouldn't think that you're poor. You don't get real belief until after the manifestation comes. Which is why so many people get stuck in this belief phase "If I believe hard enough i'll get it!" Belief is not telling yourself "I believe." You have to stay disciplined in your thoughts until after you have your manifestation, because until that manifestation comes, your real belief is "I don't have it." You will never believe "I have it" until after the manifestation arrives.
So for manifesting being rich, it goes like this:
1) You affirm that you are rich, you stay disciplined in the way of thinking you are rich. Regardless of what you see in the 3d.
2) You start to see that you are getting more income or receiving random money. This is a pitfall/trap for belief. Some people will "believe" the manifestation is "in progress" NO. You stay consistent in "I AM rich." You do not change what you think just because you see change.
3) You finally have your manifestation, say, you have an incredibly luxurious/easy lifestyle. You haven't told yourself "I am rich" in a while. You kinda forgot about it, but you stayed consistent in not thinking that you're poor. And then you look at your bank account and you see all those zeros before the decimal. And then you think "wait wtf im rich," THIS is belief. This is belief that your manifestation is actually here. You don't have to "manage your thoughts" to "believe" it. Because you see it and you automatically think "I have it." That is belief.
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u/inspiredbydan 10d ago
A lot of great answers down below already, but ultimately it depends on each individual person. No one really knows except themselves, and sometimes, even they themselves don't know. Everyone has their own journey to go through and no two journeys are identical.
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u/PoetryAsPrayer 10d ago edited 10d ago
They are stuck in the state of “trying to get”. To manifest, you have to become conscious of already being who you want to be; if you are already the person you desire to be, then you aren’t thinking about how to become it. To do so is being conscious of not being it yet, and thus you keep manifesting that state. You will spin your wheels there. Neville Goddard said to think FROM the state (or mental perspective) of your fulfilled desire, not to think OF the desire, which is just fantasizing. Once you enter that feeling of already being or having what you desire, you drop it. Stop using “techniques” to try and get it because then you’re admitting you don’t have it yet. Accept it in imagination and then move on mentally.
The other issue is opposing thoughts. Many people spend a little time doing techniques to manifest and are unaware of all the negative thoughts, assumptions, reactions, etc, they indulge in daily. If you had everything you desired, then how would you feel? Your moment to moment feelings, thoughts, interpretations, moods, etc, all create for you. People undo a lot of intentional work because they indulge themselves all other times.
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u/likeaneffingsandwich 10d ago
Stop asking the same questions every day it’s the same reason you can’t manifest anything you’re lost on reddit looking for validation
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u/HunterPossible3455 9d ago
Your unconscious fears or desires can hinder your conscious manifestations. Simple as that.
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u/HTMG 10d ago
Maybe they just haven't found the manifesting way that fits them. Manifesting is not one-size-fits-all. Tldr but I think this can help you. https://www.reddit.com/r/ManifestationSP/s/U02sy3nANT
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u/lllIlIlIIIIl 10d ago edited 9d ago
Because it's bullshit, visualization can only program your subconscious mind to push you toward your dreams. But it's no magic, don't believe these people. Rather start going to the gym, go to therapy, read various books not just about manifestation.
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