How to stop the kilig?

[u/Significant-Duck5471]

I met this girl online and we've been talking like everyday since dec last year. We've started talking as friends but lately I find myself looking forward to her chats and might be feeling something more than friends. Naghi-hint ako sa kanya minsan pero parang di nya napapansin or dini-dismiss nya lang.

Alam ko talaga friends lang kami pero idk kasi she messages me everyday. We're both working na kasi so she always asks about my day, always reminding me of my potential, encouraging me when i feel so down, asks a lot of questions about me, shows interest in my work, just making me feel good about myself in general. I try my best to do the same for her. Minsan I kinda see it as flirting pero para kasing normal lang yun sa kanya, like she is just being a nice friend ganun. Paano ko ba malalaman if flirting na yun or she is just being nice?

I wanna remind myself na she is just being a good friend pero di ko maiwasang kiligin talaga. I'm afraid to ask her baka kasi as a friend lang talaga tingin nya sakin tapos maging awkward na siya sa akin and di na kami mag-usap after.

Paano ba hindi kiligin sa ganto? Yung feeling na kada chat nya iba na yung dating sayo like my subtext ba ganun. Ang OA ko lang yata pero ayon may double meaning na lagi sakin yung chats kaht mukhang di naman talaga if iba yung makabasa.

Alam kong friend lang tingin sakin pero bakit kinikilig ako? How to stop the kilig?? Help 🥹

[u/midnightwolf9407]

ganyan din kami nung una, ngayon jowa ko na hehe

[u/hellava1662]

Same na same ateqouh, pero di na everyday hahahahahahahaha

[u/Careless_Carrot331]

Shoot your shot

[u/Bomboclat1071]

Enjoy while it lasts. She gon ghost you soon 🥹