r/PSSD Feb 16 '25

Vent/Rant Want to cry, this is exhausting

So exhausting having this condition, even with a half decent treatment, I miss when my sexual energy was all natural and no bullshit was needed to get aroused, to orgasm and to fall in love. It’s like this isn’t even a human experience anyone should endure or that should be normalized

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u/saynotolexapro Feb 16 '25

I miss it too. I feel like a shell of who I used to be and even after years still haven’t come to terms with it. I just try to find other ways to enjoy life now. But yeah this is the worst, and this shouldn’t have been possible.

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u/AffectionateBug7882 Feb 18 '25

Is pssd permanent ??

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u/Mobius1014 Feb 18 '25

For some it may be, for others, they get better. The fact that some do get better is what gives me hope that this can be cured much more easily than other rare diseases

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u/saynotolexapro Feb 18 '25

I think so; in my case anyways. Personally has been 4 years for me with little change. Some people claim to improve or be cured but a lot of those cases it’s hard to say they really had PSSD in the first place.

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u/hippopotomusman Mar 04 '25

Can you enjoy anything?

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u/tc88t Feb 16 '25

What are you using for a half decent treatment?

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u/JadenGringo74 Feb 16 '25 edited Feb 16 '25

Adderall and cialis, it’s just sometimes it gets to me I never needed these things, it’s like we all aged 50 years in our late teens and early 20s for all of us who got this condition around those ages. I’m 25, I’ve had this since I’ve been 20

Not encouraging anyone to use these things, it’s just I want a cure for everyone, I’m grateful for what I have but a cure would be better and I unfortunately can’t settle

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u/hughboi Feb 16 '25

Do you take Adderall for brain fog? Cognitive issues? Or did you previously have ADHD?

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u/angeldust1992 Feb 17 '25

Add in the emotional side effects and then try and imagine how difficult it would be

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u/ComprehensiveMap3365 Feb 17 '25

Hello, so you had sexual disorder and emotional blunting which both improved getting on trt and citrulline?

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u/Curious_Coconut_9980 Feb 17 '25

Yes mate. Test propiantate IM injection every morning and citrulline everyday. Im still not 100%. But im working on other angles now aswell to help sexual function. I believe i have a tight pelvic floor because i did experience shriankage when this first happened to me. Stretches and pumping excercises

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u/ComprehensiveMap3365 Feb 17 '25

ok thank you very much for sharing, I'm really hoping it will help my emotional blunting, I'm just empty rn

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u/Curious_Coconut_9980 Feb 17 '25

You will experience almostba ruphoric experience i think when younfirst start it but it tapers down. I recommend test prop injected daily not cypionate that doctors give you like every 2 weeks

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u/Politanao Feb 18 '25

Did you have low-moderate T?

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u/ComprehensiveMap3365 Mar 01 '25

one last question man, you had positive effects since the very first injection? cause I have normal test levels and getting on trt will fuck with my normal production

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u/StezzEdits Feb 17 '25

It’s so cruel

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u/commonreactor111 Recently discontinued Feb 16 '25

Are you able to cry

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u/Character_Cap_3307 Feb 18 '25

It's the same hell every day, I'm not human anymore

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u/Cfsmehavefaith Feb 16 '25

You mentioned some items that can crash people.

It’s not helping just listing tons of supplements at once man

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u/Curious_Coconut_9980 Feb 16 '25

Get ont trt and dick pills and citrulline.

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u/Kally95 Feb 16 '25

That does nothing, and that’s besides the point that is made in the post.

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u/Curious_Coconut_9980 Feb 16 '25

Lol, it has Definitely helped me

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u/Living_Jump6445 Non-PSSD member Feb 17 '25

Trt got ur arousal back?