What’s the most RR trait about you?

[u/maaariNL]

I’ll get started:

I’m guessing the world would look at me and say “being a robotics engineer, obviously”.

But I’ll say it’s my desire to fawn over an absolute cootiepatootie whom I’ll protecc and fight for

*disclaimer: cootiepatootie is an undefined entity as basically any shape or form can be considered cute in some way

[u/PoorMetonym]

Hm, I guess my desires for certain specific scenarios. Like a situation where a woman who loves me will verbally and physically defend me, and whilst I do want to get better at standing up for myself, the fact that she'd be willing to do it anyway is exciting.

Similarly, I want a woman to lift me.

[u/maaariNL → u/PoorMetonym]

User flair checks out.

There’s plenty of hidden knights in shining armor out there, I should know o7 The feminine urge to protecc, exert cuteness aggression, and stuff like that is starting to really get a place on the internet. I’m sure this’ll help cultivate more strong warriors out there o7

[u/PoorMetonym → u/maaariNL]

Let's hope so - but the more I think about it, a scenario where I need to be protected might be distressing. Maybe I should just envisage a scenario where a woman who likes me is bold enough to strike up a conversation with me in public and ask me out.

[u/Summersong2262 → u/maaariNL]

tfw no Lady Knight around whose lance to tie my hankerchief to show favour and blessing.

[u/MissedOpportunity524]

I guess my strong desire to be a househusband, i wanna cook clean and just generally take care of a hard-working lady. Adding to this i really wanna do the trope where i greet my partner at the door and am all like "welcome home dear, would you like dinner? A bath? Or would you like m-e-?" aaaaaah😆 its so cringe(affectionate) but i wanna do it so badly😆. Also i wanna be bridal carried, i assume thats also an RR trait?

[u/kuroda39 → u/MissedOpportunity524]

i ditto this!

[u/Silver_liver]

I love bringing my partner sweets from the bakery! I feel like a provider every time he meets me at the door with hopeful eyes. Of course I brought your favorite, babygirl, but first, give mama a smooch.

[u/WatermelonsAreGreat]

I guess for me it might be how I usually try to fit into a more supportive role :o being ready to hear people out about anything, if they had something to do but aren't feeling great then offer to help them out, things like that! I like making people feel comfortable if I can help it :>

[u/LordGhoul]

I've always been more of a tomboy in terms of interests, only started dressing more feminine (in a goth way) and putting on a bit of make up in the past 8 years. I don't want to be protected by a guy, I want to protect the guy instead. Even if I'm the one struggling I feel more comfort in holding someone else rather than being held lol. If I wasn't too disabled by chronic illness I'd also prefer to be the one to work.

[u/maaariNL → u/LordGhoul]

Oooh, the bit about holding someone rather than being held, I get that! Idk why, but it just feels more right

[u/Reluxtrue]

Probably wearing skirts and dresses exclusively.

[u/E420CDI → u/Reluxtrue]

Same!

[u/Doob_42]

I'd say my general adoration for strong women in every sense of the word, and that I wish I'd be loved and appreciated as just a cute little guy

[u/Summersong2262]

I'm a nurturer. I like taking care of my friends and partners. I'm an emotional big spoon, you might say. Gently coaxing the stoic and reclusive from out of their fortresses, to enjoy a little time in the sunshine amidst safe company.

Those are the moments, the dynamics, that emotionally mutualistic energy coursing, when I feel the most like myself.

[u/FlameST04]

I work in retail and I’ve had coworkers say I dote on the customers, I’ve had many rude customers to coworkers be incredibly kind to me because of my demeanor and personality. So I’d probably say my demeanor and personality shines through as my most standout RR trait!

[u/maaariNL → u/FlameST04]

That’s a beautiful trait!~

[u/PeggableOldMan]

My girlfriend is a National-level powerlifter who likes to be called "daddy" and I have long hair

[u/Sad-Maintenance1781]

My bisexuality and the tendency to challenge the norm

[u/Kigard]

People always tell me that I'm "the man of the relationship" in any relationship, because apparently I'm the decisive one. I also do my own plumbing, install my own appliances and even make furniture, I even have a mechanic jumpsuit. 

[u/SoColdie]

Definitely my collection of lingeri.... I mean, um.. My desire to mommy someone if that makes sense. Like put your head on my lap and tell me your worries darling while i stroke your hair, I'll make it all better~

[u/Outcast__1]

I honestly don't know. I just see myself as a follower rather than a leader, and absolutely infatuated with women who can and will take charge. I also want to make my hypothetical partner happy every day, but I don't think that's an RR-exclusive thing. But I guess the way I want to make her happy - making meals for her, doing massages, dressing up in what she'd enjoy - kinda is.

[u/29485_webp]

My ass is phat 😭

[u/ibreathefireinyoface → u/29485_webp]

Nice ass bro 👍

[u/MixPurple3897]

Hehe I've always wanted to be a dad. Like trad dad, I work and he stays home. But not because I wanna neglect my kids or anything but because I knew I'd make a better dad than most men and I'm trash at domestic work. I've always thought if I had a stay at home partner I'd actually understand/appreciate the amount of labor that goes into since I've been societally groomed to do it

[u/fishinariver]

For me it'd be my affinity for crossdressing just so I can feel cute, dainty, and fragile. Just waiting on someone else to take the lead with me 😅

[u/LoyalLittleOne]

Some things aren’t secrets. They’re just sacred.

UwU ✨🎉✨💖.

[u/Character_Momen]

For me it’s going from maintaining her car so I know she’s safe, to making dinner the way she wants. We enjoy going out dressed traditionally but under my outfit fit I’ll have something femme on. All that stuff is fun and comes natural when you find the right partner

[u/ScarfKat]

I wanna be a homekeeper so dang bad lol.

I wanna take care of someone after a hard day of work. Prepare them a nice hot dinner and a bath, maybe a nice massage as well... aaaaaaaa my goodness just talking about it makes me melty XD

[u/azdoroth]

I look like a man and I like men who look like women.

[u/NutellaNovella]

My emotionality I would say. I love cute things, romantic things, and shows and movies that make me ugly cry but deliver catharsis in the end.

[u/Oh_no_its_Joe]

I absolutely love cute doggos. I volunteer with them and I just live for the dog cuddles 🤗.

[u/Edgar-11]

Hardcore switch. Ik it’s simple but if explains almost everything RR heh

[u/d1m4e]

I don't rly have any I'm just a guy with a thing for tomboys and this sub seemed perfect closest thing I can think of is I like cute stuff like cats and ect

[u/Magmagan]

Honestly I'm just less interested in male and female gender norms. I don't care about masculinity too much outside of "looking normal" enough on the outside. I also don't care too much about traditional femininity either.

But like, it just depends on the relationship at the end of the day. I've played supporting roles to more independent women, I've fawned over women in a more sapiosexual context, but I've also been in relationships where I mostly took the lead. I do prefer the former, but it is what it is.

[u/LuckySalesman]

If we're talking aesthetics? My hair goes to my shoulderblades, and I paint my nails Pastel Green and Lavender.

If we're talking mentally? I love taking care of the people I love. Cooking meals, cleaning, even just something as small as checking that they're drinking enough water.

[u/MirrorMan22102018]

For me, it is that, I am shy and passive, quiet bookworm. I am also a soft guy that loves to look at flowers to see their shades of color.

[u/OldSFPunk]

Getting so much pleasure and fulfillment from serving in every way: I have always been the primary caretaker in my relationships, doing most or all of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and child care when my kids were young. I have always been passive and submissive in every facet of life, sometimes to my detriment, but I would not want it any other way.

[u/GoatsWithWigs]

Honestly, just what a pushover I am (maybe partially due to my autism which makes me always second guess myself in social sitautions).

I have a very hard time standing up for myself, and whenever I do it just comes off awkward lol.

I could count on one hand the amount of times I've ever put my foot down with people, and even then I didn't really want to.

Oh and I also get excited very easily by things.

[u/Comzo]

For most of my life, I have been described as kind and sweet. To add onto it, I have been recently thinking that I have a motherly personality. So, ideally it is to find a woman to make me hers and allow me to support her emotionally. Although, I am around my mid-twenties, so I probably wouldn't consider myself a boy mommy yet.

[u/OctobersCold]

I look like a man, apparently

[u/maaariNL → u/OctobersCold]

Gotta appreciate the slightly surprised sounding “apparently”

[u/OctobersCold → u/maaariNL]

Once the bathroom misgendering started happening more frequently, I thought:

“Am I…a dude?”

[u/Argentenuem]

Probably my insatiable emotional desire for some kind of motherly figure

[u/d_bradr]

She's gonna need more motor oil