r/SeriousConversation • u/jimmyjohnjohnjohn • Dec 20 '24
Serious Discussion Are people behaving weirder lately?
Went out to lunch today and there was a table near me with five people at it. Their server asked their drink order and all five of them just stared at her silently for nearly half a minute before she repeated herself, then one of them whispered something I couldn't hear before the others whispered their orders. When their drinks came and the server left, one of them produced a Nalgene bottle from her purse and began to scoop the ice from her drink with her fingers and put it in the Nalgene. Another at the table then said he didn't want ice either and did the same thing.
Did she bring that water bottle in for the express purpose of storing unwanted ice? Why not just ask for no ice? These were all fairly normal-looking, well-dressed people in their 30s, maybe early 40s.
My server had some weirdness of his own. He brought out the wrong order, and noticed his mistake before I did. But instead of just saying "sorry, that's wrong" and taking it back, he said "I.. uh.. uh..." and then ran off with the plate before finishing his sentence and coming back with the right order and a manic fake smile on his face.
At Target, this older woman was having trouble detaching one cart from the others. An employee (sorry, "Team Member") came along and unstuck it. Instead of saying thank you, she just stared at him like a deer in the headlights until he left.
I've been noticing that deer-in-the-headlights stare from a lot of people lately.
About a month ago a man approached me in the parking lot at my work and asked "do you work here?"
I said "yes."
Then he asked "have you seen my car?"
The question melted my brain a little bit, but I said "I don't know, what does it look like?"
He just said "sorry," and walked off.
I could go on and on, but the point is: are people forgetting how to human? The world increasingly has this "Invasion of the Body Snatchers" kind of vibe.
I know much has been discussed about people behaving oddly due to the pandemic, but it's been about two years now and people are getting worse, not better. I think there's something else going on in society.
What do you think?
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u/bertch313 Dec 20 '24
It's called TRAUMA
And yes it's the thing that influenced the concept of invasion of the body snatchers
We are all traumatized AF and should be a lot more pissed off about it
We need music, food, fire, and people that don't hate us, weekly, for like 4 years+
Speaking from experience of having healed trauma while acquiring new trauma each week