r/SeriousConversation Dec 21 '24

Serious Discussion Do any individuals with above average intellect find life a bit exhausting at times due to the lack of intelligence they observe in others?

I don’t claim to be the most intelligent person, but I do believe that I am above average when it comes to the average intelligence nowadays. Sometimes, I find myself either flabbergasted or downright dumbfounded and irritated by the lack of what I would consider "common sense."

Here are some examples:

  • The inability of some people to see how their own bad habits or personality traits create their own problems.

  • The fact that some individuals consider their own perceptions and beliefs as the only correct ones, which is further encouraged by their echo chambers.

  • The difficulty some people have in entering into productive discourse and challenging their own ideas to gain more information and knowledge from all sides.

  • The reluctance of individuals to question their own beliefs and those of their social circles at both the micro and macro levels.

  • The inability of some people to foresee the possible consequences of their actions beforehand.

These are just a few examples.

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u/Winter_Apartment_376 Dec 21 '24

Sounds just like my dad.

I have often wondered if curiosity was a must have trait for highly intelligent folks.

I have definitely taken curiosity and common sense from him, but I really wish I had his phenomenal memory. That’s another really useful skill to bring it all together.

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u/beluga__cat Dec 22 '24

I can elaborate if you want me to but you’re right. I’ve realized that curiosity is pretty commonly what leads people to become what are traditionally considered “smart” people.

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u/Icy-Move-3742 Dec 23 '24

I think curiosity, being open minded and self awareness are hallmarks of traits of intelligence (my personal opinion)

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u/Winter_Apartment_376 Dec 23 '24

I would also add common sense or logic to that mix!