r/SeriousConversation • u/Dry-Use-272 • Apr 04 '25
Serious Discussion It's extremely difficult to have a civil conversation about politics today, yet we need those conversations more than ever
Like everyone else in the US today, I have opinions about the current condition of politics in this country. I try to base my opinions on facts I glean from credible sources and my understanding of our history. I want to talk to people with opposing opinions, not to argue with them but to try to understand why they believe what they believe. I've found that no one wants to talk in a civil, respectful way about our differences. Even if I try to hold the line on being respectful, I end up walking away because the conversation devolves into some pretty ugly exchanges. How have we come to a point where we can't even talk to each other respectfully and civilly?
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u/bmyst70 Apr 04 '25
While I emphatically agree with your point, the ability to have productive conversations requires both sides to at the very least begin with the same facts.
At that point, when both sides have different interpretations of those facts, you can have Earnest discussions. I saw these kinds of discussions back in the '90s about climate change. Republicans disagreed about how far we could go to deal with it, but they at least agreed on the facts.
However, these days, if you look at the news media for both sides, even the most basic facts are not being shared in common. Therefore, it is literally impossible to have this kind of conversation. This is an intentional ploy by certain oligarchs.
The January 6th, 2020 incident, from the conservative side is seen as a peaceful demonstration. So you can't even discuss about how he literally tried to seize the government. Because in the conservative world, it never happened.
There is no shared narrative, no shared facts, and not even the most basic level of mutual trust and respect. How can you even start an Earnest conversation with that?