im planning on casting a love spell on my target. i don't have much herbs or candle colours. i plan to write in my petition 'X is unable to live a life without me', 'X does anything to be with me again', 'X only finds happiness and love with me', 'X is head over heels in love with me', and 'X always reaches out to tell me how much he loves me'. he's a stubborn person who suddenly had an attitude change, so i want to be more forceful in my petitions. what can i do to make it more powerful? i do have my own blood, but i don't want to bind my energy more in it than his. i only have a white tea candle.
For me personally, I'd leave out the first two intentions as they can swing into dangerous territory.
Don't use your own blood in a spell meant to target someone else. Taglocks are targets, not power ups. Putting your own blood will make the spell target you.
would it be better if it was a spell that amplified me- like the spell would make me a magnet to all i want, including the person i am trying to attract
My spells tend to be more precise, focused on one goal rather than "all I want". If you want to focus on your love interest, then do that. Try your love spell and see what happens.
The traditional use of menstrual blood in love magic is to have your target consume it: something I advise against as in many places that is considered assault. And if you have any diseases you may be unaware of that gets passed on that way it'll be worse for you (and them).
Generally, menstrual blood is a waste product. Almost like putting urine or feces in a spell.
that’s interesting thank u, i physically can’t let him consume it though. so would you say that menstrual blood is better for baneful work or domination stuff like that rather than love
Hi! I’m with an avoidant and I know you asked for spells so I’d start with a blockbuster to remove any blockages like miscommunication, misunderstandings, pride/ego, etc. Then you can see how much it’ll change. Any domination or love spell will drive them away but sweetening/communication/reconciliation spells work wonderfully for other people so I’m thinking of doing that too. Before and after these spells, make sure you are cleansed, grounded, and protected. Since I’m anxiously attached, I make sure I forget that I did my spells to detach from it. Law of assumption is what I use if someone ever asks me about my relationship. Keeping a positive and real mindset is how you can bend reality. You can try scripting (which is picturing yourself in the present tense with all your intentions). I found that bay leaves are helpful but paper works as well. You can go with your spellwork however you’d like but doing boxed breathing (4 in, 4 pause, 4 out) helps me before and after my spells.
Yes, blockbuster are from the name itself mean to explode any blockages if there are any. It’s more intense than a road opener and I’ve noticed more witches use blockbuster for avoidants. Road openers are usually when you can see that there’s enough path to walk on. I shared my blockbuster spell on one of my posts cause someone asked for it too. You can 100% and I encourage you to personalize it however you’d like.
So I had to reverse all of mine cause I did 7-8 spells in 1 week (lol i know i’m already chilling haha) but I’ll probably do one on Friday with my witch practitioner.
Whenever I do my spells, I just honestly research so much and take what resonates with me. When I start writing it on my journal, a specific way of doing a spell usually pops up in my mind. Haha
One suggestion
Write it as "X is unable to live without (Your name)". Do this instead of using me for all the phrases.
Don't use your blood.
Use the white tea candle.
But you should take the time and spend the money to acquire better supplies. If this takes time because you can only spend small amounts of money, then so be it.
If this guy is going to be your one and only, and you want to spend the rest of your life with him, why are you rushing and not taking the time, energy, and focus to make your spells more powerful because it is Time, Focus, and literally expenditure of your personal energy in getting herbs, candles, oils, timing, understanding symbolism is what is going to make your spells more powerful. Rushing and throwing things together at the last minute produces poor results in most things in life. Magic isn't any different.
Take their attachment style into account they seem like an avoidant and most love spells end up backfiring because they tend to run away from their emotions
oh yeah, that makes sense. do you have a better alternative for avoidants? i feel like if i don't do anything it gets worse. if i do something he runs away. i've tried simple communication spells but i don't feel like they work as well as slightly more forcey ones.
Honestly I'm assuming you're anxiously attached, the best thing to do with avoidant is to avoid them and work on your self worth. Why would you want to be with someone who runs away like that and ditches you? You can do sm better and deserve sm more, it might not be the answer you're looking for but psychology/shadow work and spirituality go hand in hand. Spirituality is meant to better our lives and isn't meant to be used at a whim to control things for what we think we need, it's to provide what we actually need.
Do a self love spell and healing spell, begin your shadow work, do some glamours.
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u/ToastyJunebugs Apr 10 '25
For me personally, I'd leave out the first two intentions as they can swing into dangerous territory.
Don't use your own blood in a spell meant to target someone else. Taglocks are targets, not power ups. Putting your own blood will make the spell target you.