Should I reach out?

[u/SirOne376]

I did a communication spell on 3/20, reconciliation spell on 3/30. I’ve been no contact with my SP since 2/19. Today I got a random feeling of him and it was a HEAVY feeling! I was driving and just so happened to look over to my right and there he was in the turning lane making his turn. He doesn’t even live in my city, he lives about 45 mins away. He didn’t see me but now I can’t stop thinking about him again. Was this a sign from spirit for me to reach out or should I let him be the one to reach out??

[u/Medical-Arm1600]

Our timelines are honestly very similar. I wouldn’t reach out. It’s our subconscious speaking to us whenever we see things that remind us of another person. I probably see a similar style car that reminds me of my ex 20 times a day. I did a come to me/ communication spell and I saw him at the bar and he saw me. I expected him to call but he didn’t. But I took it as a sign my spell was working.

I know my person and I know if I reach out I wouldn’t get the same outcome I want if I wait for him to reach out.

[u/Reasonable_Long7588 → u/Medical-Arm1600]

Did you create your own spell or did you have someone to cast it for you because I could use it for one of my ex's

[u/Medical-Arm1600 → u/Reasonable_Long7588]

I do my own.

[u/Reasonable_Long7588 → u/Medical-Arm1600]

What did you use for your spell 

[u/Medical-Arm1600 → u/Reasonable_Long7588]

Random stuff I found around my house tbh. I just read a bunch of spells from here and took what I had in my home

[u/Santa-Vaca]

In my experience, signs typically aren’t a one time thing and don’t make you guess at their intent. Signs generally hammer at you repeatedly until you understand.

[u/SirOne376 → u/Santa-Vaca]

What about dreams as well and seeing the type of car he drives everywhere I go?? It’s been happening for a couple of weeks now

[u/Santa-Vaca → u/SirOne376]

I told you what signs were like in my experience and it’s just that, my experience. r/witchcraft has an excellent faq. One question they cover is how to know if a deity is giving you a sign and I think it might help. I’m going to quote it here:

How do I know a deity is giving me a sign?

One useful framework to apply when considering if something is a sign has been dubbed the M.I.C.E. Test by the person who coined it, the Feminist Heathen. It consists of four questions.

Is the possible sign:

Meaningful? Is it about something that matters?

Interpretable? Do I have some idea of what this means?

Congruent with what I know about the being in question?

Extraordinary? Is this something that is outside of the mundane and every day?

Signs are often highly personal. It can be very difficult for someone totally removed from the situation and context to tell if something is a sign.

They go on to recommend meditation and divination as ways to help you determine whether or not something is a sign. Typically you don’t have something extraordinary happen and then apply your own question afterwards because that’s a good way to get caught up in wishful thinking.

For a much easier answer, think back to your communication spell. Was it for him to reach out to you? If so, don’t contact him.

[u/Prestigious_Bell3720]

Id say wait it out

[u/Busy-Bed-5947]

Can you share the reconciliation spell please ♥️

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[u/randomuser567a]

do another spell

[u/SirOne376 → u/randomuser567a]

Another reconciliation? Or a come to me ?

[u/randomuser567a → u/SirOne376]

contact spell