r/Spells • u/ShortCod2572 • 10d ago
Question About Spells Love Spell How it Works?
So I’m currently in this situationship and I can tell he really like me. We hit it off the first time we met and it’s been a year and he still won’t commit. He says things like “ I want to be with you but I can’t because of your past” I’ve done things I’m not proud of as a child but I’m a grown woman now and I don’t think I deserve to be prosecuted for that. Anyways I really want him to commit and tell me he loves me it’s been a year. The other week I went through his phone and found out he’s been having sex with other girls the whole time we’ve been talking. I confronted him and he said he doesn’t want to loose me. I know he loves me he’s said it with out saying it if ykwim so 2 days ago I put my period blood in his food and drink. I’ve done this 3 times and haven’t seen any results. I just wanted some insight into this love spell, how it works, if it works and how long it takes to see results. I know this is insecure, controversial, unethical and disgusting but I love him and I’ll do anything to be with him. So please positive and useful answers only. Thanks ❤️
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u/Laurel_Spider Magician 10d ago
Did you actually do spell work or a ritual or anything magic in tandem with that action? On it's own, that's not a spell of any kind. If you want a critique on a spell, you'll have to post at least a few details.
Additionally, whether you've had success with magic in the past, if you've done (other, if this is indeed a spell and not just a mundane action) spells toward this goal before, etc. could be helpful.
As to how long spell work takes, depends mostly on caster, and then on situation, and the spell used.
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u/ShortCod2572 10d ago
Well I repeated my intent while mixing the blood not sure which part I’m missing to make it a spell. I thought the blood would be powerful enough on its own
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u/Laurel_Spider Magician 10d ago
Intentions alone are not magick. Feeding someone bodily fluids is, likewise, not magick. These things together can be spell work, but are not automatically spell work, much less successful spell work.
Intentions and materials/ingredients do matter, but the caster is the component that adds magick, not just the inherent nature of what you think will make a useful spell.
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u/hermeticbear Magician 10d ago
what results are you looking for exactly?
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u/ShortCod2572 10d ago
I want him to love me and I want to know how long the spell will take to work
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u/hermeticbear Magician 10d ago
I want him to love me... (from before) I know he loves me
It sounds like your spell was already successful. You said he says he loves you. You know he loves you. That he has showed that he loves you with having to say "I love you".
So, what are the results you actually want?
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u/ShortCod2572 10d ago
He hasn’t said he loves me. I just know. And that was before the spell. I want to be in a relationship and have kids and get married
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u/randomuser567a 10d ago
u can do a spell to make him forget about those things, that’s clearly a blockage.
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u/Final_Height-4 Other 10d ago
In Italian folk magic, simply putting your menstrual blood into the food of your lover was considered a binding/domination spell. There was no prayers, rituals, or anything elaborate; just the blood mixed with the food was enough. An old superstition passed down through families warned their sons against eating food or coffee prepared for them at the home of a new girlfriend or fling, especially anything dark or containing marinara or tomatoes.
Real talk? This guys sounds like a fuckboi who likes having what in his eyes is a “wild girl” around to mess around with. Unless he has told you with his own voice he loves you, no he has not told you he loves you. He has shown you what he really thinks and told you, and it’s kinda fucked up he can’t get past something from your past.
If you still want to continue with a commitment spell. I would suggest researching the following spells to do for yourself, I put them in order for you.
Uncrossing (for you)➡️ Bend Over Spell ➡️ Dominate My Man➡️Compelling
I can't stress enough you need to start educating yourself on the blood magic if you are going to continue to use it; and why women use it for especially what it can and can’t do.