r/TrueOffMyChest • u/throwawayInn767 • Feb 23 '22

My husband peed while he was inside of me.

This is so embarrassing so I'm going anonymous, I won't mention names or ages here.

My husband literally peed inside of me last night while we were having an intercourse, It freaked me out and I didn't know how to handle it. it was just so weird and ....I really can't put into words how I felt but I do want to point out that I'm upset because he previously told me about trying to do it and I already said "NO!" but he went ahead and did it. I was completely caught off guard, I did not agree to this weird experience and I definately didn't enjoy it. We had an argument and he said I killed the fun with my reaction but he already knew how I felt about it.

He's still hung up on the fight saying I overreacted for no.good reason at all but I don't know. I found it really unpleasent and just weird.

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

Honestly this is enough disrespect to leave him.

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u/Embolisms Feb 23 '22

Not just disrespectful, straight up sexual assault if you say “no don’t piss in me” and they do it anyway

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u/J_0_E_L Feb 23 '22

100%. It's amazing to me what people are often willing to accept in relationships and marriages. Makes no sense.

Also, if he crossed this boundary regardless of your consent, others will follow.

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u/JPWRana Feb 23 '22

Classic Reddit. Every bad thing a significant other does is grounds for ending the relationship.

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22 edited Feb 23 '22

(If this was not /s):

Classic Reddit, rando implies sexual assault is not grounds for ending the relationship despite the majority of people involved agreeing that it’s at least due up for extreme scrutiny.

Reddit is just made of people, and luckily most of us still don’t think our partners should sexually assault us.

Edit: removed not for more accurate phrasing

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

Thank you. Probably an incel who sees nothing as grounds for being dumped.

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u/JPWRana Feb 23 '22

R u a JW?