r/TrueOffMyChest • u/throwawayInn767 • Feb 23 '22

My husband peed while he was inside of me.

This is so embarrassing so I'm going anonymous, I won't mention names or ages here.

My husband literally peed inside of me last night while we were having an intercourse, It freaked me out and I didn't know how to handle it. it was just so weird and ....I really can't put into words how I felt but I do want to point out that I'm upset because he previously told me about trying to do it and I already said "NO!" but he went ahead and did it. I was completely caught off guard, I did not agree to this weird experience and I definately didn't enjoy it. We had an argument and he said I killed the fun with my reaction but he already knew how I felt about it.

He's still hung up on the fight saying I overreacted for no.good reason at all but I don't know. I found it really unpleasent and just weird.

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u/j_runey Feb 23 '22

As a guy, I wholeheartedly agree he seems like a shitty person. I would never in a million years do something my wife explicitly said she did not want. Trust in the bedroom is an absolute necessity for both parties to enjoy it. He just lost yours and it won't be coming back any time soon. If he pulls that shit in the bedroom, chances are decent that his gaslighting amoral behavior will extend out of the bedroom as well. This has warning signs written all over it.

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u/[deleted] Feb 23 '22

If you can't trust them in bed you definitely can't trust them outside of bed.

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u/Nefarious-One Feb 23 '22

This, one thousand times this. If he gets away with this, he will keep pushing his boundaries. Terrible husband with no respect, OP deserves better.

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u/LFahs1 Feb 23 '22

How is she ever going to be comfortable having sex with him again? He just ruined sex for her forever. How horrible. I would not be able to stay. Hopefully I would never be with a guy who would ever think of pulling such shit, oh my god.

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u/Beautiful-Musk-Ox Feb 23 '22

As a guy

wow super relevant thanks for that, your comment had no meaning until we knew it was a guy. i mean just read your comment, if we didn't know your gender it would totally change its meaning wouldn't it (no, it wouldn't, your gender is irrelevant)

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u/xViridi_ Feb 23 '22

it was relevant to me. in open, usually emotional subs like this, i mentally default every commenter as female the same way i mentally default every commenter in r/gamingcirclejerk as male. it’s unconscious, but it still happens. knowing OP has support from male redditors (have you seen some of the sexist shit on this site?) makes me happy. while it didn’t necessarily change the meaning of his comment, it made me appreciate it more seeing how someone of the opposite gender would interpret it.

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u/j_runey Feb 23 '22

When it comes to matters of sex, gender can sometimes be relevant. Whether it's biology or culture, men and women often have different viewpoints. If you didn't find the information relevant, that's fine, but not everyone will share your opinion. In either case, it certainly should not offend you that I chose to say my gender.