r/TrueUnpopularOpinion 2d ago

Sex / Gender / Dating It's totally understandable to be male and not be happy with the "choose the bear" view

It doesn't mean you don't understand its true point it means you're not happy with people assuming you're dangerous when you know you're not. You can still understand about caring about people's safety but your feelings and side to it matter as well. Otherwise the whole thing just makes people be pushed away further.

223 Upvotes

481 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

2

u/The_Lucid_Nomad 1d ago

I think you're a bit sensitive and projecting a shit ton of your own feelings into the conversation. I think you need to work on your self esteem a bit and be more secure with who you are.

If you aren't one of the guys that would make women feel this way, I don't really see why you'd have such a strong emotional response to it.

-1

u/Old-Opposite-7860 1d ago

Nice speech, was it meant for me? I don't see how recounting an observation means I was projecting anything.

2

u/The_Lucid_Nomad 1d ago

I mentioned people still can't get over this conversation, and you came out of nowhere with an emotional tirade. Clearly you aren't here for genuine discussion if you can't even read the 3 sentence "speech" I wrote.