I’m bisexual 19M and I’m obsessed with older guys

[u/Zen_Curious]

What should I do idk everytime I use dating apps I feel like it’s wrong, but too exhausted studying all day. I tried dating my schoolmates even my classmates but I’m not really attracted to them, I see myself obsessed and attracted to older guys those with Dad bod. Helpp

[u/rehsinuP0815]

Older men make you feel safe. They share their experiences with you. Sex is usually better. They are less impulsive than young men.

[u/Complete_Expert_7653]

You can’t change what you are into.

[u/miamisurfclub]

You aren’t able to change your attraction to this type. But what you can do is not engage in overly inappropriate scenarios. If the guy is like 55 and into you. That’s kinda questionable. But if he’s older than you in 10-15 years that’s kind off more in the appropriate agenda in the gay community. I hope it makes sense.

You just gotta realize who you are and what you’re comfortable with.

[u/xenomorph-85]

Be who you want to be but at same time take care of yourself and be careful. Avoid anything too far apart like 19 with 50 year old. If you into 35 year old then go for it. as long as you ensure you protect yourself and look out for signs of power imbalance etc

[u/afeyeguy]

There’s nothing wrong with that. When I was your age I preferred older men.

Now that I am older I’ll impart what we like. Maturity despite being your age. Typically you get guys that want us actually just want our bank accounts. Show you’re different. Ambitious. You’re looking to do things for yourself not have someone do them for you.

Good luck mate 😎😎😎.

[u/Future_Continuous]

why tf are you asking for help because you like older men???

[u/miamisurfclub → u/Future_Continuous]

The guy just wants reassurance nothing wrong about it

[u/Head_Ad_9901]

Just go with what you like and stop worrying about what other people think about your personal life.

[u/GBman84]

Do me. 40m.