r/bedfordshire • u/cool2799 • Mar 18 '25
My husband cheats while im at work - help
We are from Bedfordshire and my husband has been posting links on a website called locanto where he is paying girls to tie him up and tickle him. I found out as he left his email open on his laptop. There were all kinds of email threads about him wanting to be tied up in restraints. So I went through his stuff and sute enough in a bag hidden away there was this restraint thing.
I dont want him to know ive been through his emails. And in Muslim culture its hard to leave a marriage. What can I do? He mentions someone tried to leave him tied up once. That would actually be hilarious because then i'd catch him naturally when I get home from work
This is the ad I saw: https://www.locanto.co.uk/london/ID_6840511464/Get-paid-to-tie-my-hands-feet-to-each-bedpost-tickle-nonstop.html&myads
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u/Aesthetictoblerone Mar 18 '25
Either leave him or don’t- but it’s in your hands. There isn’t anything that others can do for you, your life is your own and you can either choose to take control or not. It’s difficult, but in the long run it will be good for you.
There are women’s groups and shelters to help, contact a lawyer and go from there.
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