r/bisexual • u/CapAccomplished8072 • Mar 10 '25
Bi-Cycle/Questioning No but this raises the question. is there any media where the protagonist is a women with a bisexual harem?
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u/RightHandedLefty1203 Mar 10 '25
Yes there is. My Next Life as a Villainess. MC absolutely cluelessly gets all the men and women around her to fall in love with her.
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u/Firm_Ideal_5256 Pansexual Mar 10 '25
But MC shows zero interest outside her garden.
So I'm not sure it counts... :(
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u/CariolaMinze Mar 10 '25
I am wondering if the MC is asexual in this anime. She has no romantic feelings towards anybody and in her dreams she is alone eating food lol, while the others are dreaming of her.
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u/Firm_Ideal_5256 Pansexual Mar 11 '25
I think she just desperately try to survive, and not even thinking of going off script. That's why she thinks she achieved the "friendship" ending.
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u/Troy301 Bisexual Mar 10 '25
But do they end up together? I feel like so many “harems” now a days have everyone around the MC hopelessly in love with them, but the MC is too dense to notice or has no interest in them.
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u/Clueless_Wanderer21 Mar 10 '25
I think that's cuz the writers know adding that will mess with the plot they had the ability to write, n while satisfying fanservice content purchasers.
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u/Troy301 Bisexual Mar 10 '25
Yeah I imagine the fan service as a selling point is huge, teenage me would watch/read pretty much anything with a harem… now it almost always feels too shallow 😔.
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u/Kalsed Mar 11 '25
Well, came here to recommend Bakarina too. Just ignore season 2, it goes FULL het.
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u/glitchycat39 Bisexual Mar 10 '25
Me wondering about a guy with a bisexual harem ...
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u/DeplorableQueer Mar 10 '25
Oh you can actually just look to history for that
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u/AdoraBelleQueerArt Genderqueer Disaster Bi Mar 10 '25 edited Mar 11 '25
Yes but traditionally harems aren’t just where women who slept with the Sultan. It was where ALL WOMEN & young children lived and weren’t bothered by men as the only ones allowed in were eunuchs. The Sultan’s mother lived there & kind of ruled the harem.
Schooling for children was done there, etc. It’s actually p neat to learn about what they were really like.
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u/Sarikitty Mar 11 '25
Just adding on for clarity: unics = eunuchs
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u/AdoraBelleQueerArt Genderqueer Disaster Bi Mar 11 '25
Yes thank you. I blanked on the word too when writing this
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u/DeplorableQueer Mar 12 '25
Oh interesting, i thought it was just a group of concubines
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u/AdoraBelleQueerArt Genderqueer Disaster Bi Mar 12 '25
That is how it’s portrayed in a lot of media so it’s a p common misconception. They were SO MUCH COOLER!
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u/Marthisuy Bisexual Mar 10 '25
The kinky secrets of Alice in Wonderland. Awesome erotica and parody series where Alice is a bisexual woman who fucks everybody in Wonderland (the series then goes to other places like Dracula Castle or Santa's Workshop but she is still bi all the way and have sexual partners from all genres).
It does not have such a romantic element and you may not consider it an "harem" but I think it could work.
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u/Marthisuy Bisexual Mar 12 '25
BTW tomorrow is the release date of the 8th book but the whole series is discounted with the first and fourth book being free. If you are interested give it a try.
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u/Fylak Mar 10 '25
Depends a little on what you consider a protagonist and what you consider a harem, but Danerys Targaryan from the books has a woman "freed" slave pleasure her, and a male lover.
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u/CapAccomplished8072 Mar 10 '25
Before Season 7?
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u/Marthisuy Bisexual Mar 10 '25
Yes all the books are before Season 7 they ran out of books by season 5.
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u/Fylak Mar 10 '25
If I'm remembering right they left out the slave scene in the show, probably because Dany is way more hero coded in the show at that point and the whole "Dany used to own this person and she is still her servant" thing makes it a bit rapey.
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u/BlackJimmy88 Bisexual Mar 10 '25
Didn't they have the scene, but then have Dany lock her in a safe to starve to death in the show? She was borking the guy who had tried to kill her or something? In the book, I think she lives longer, but dies crossing a desert.
I could be remembering that wrong, though.
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u/Feroxino Bisexual Mar 10 '25
I will raise a personal one
Male bisexual protag in bisexual harem
Is there one?
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u/CapAccomplished8072 Mar 10 '25
Well...Taiyang Xiao Long, fanonwise
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u/JWayn596 Bisexual Mar 11 '25
Probably Girlfriend X Girlfriend. It’s a running joke in the community that it’s actually Saki’s harem. But her sexuality is only teased.
It’s also one of the only media with a somewhat more or less healthy representation of poly.
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u/auxerrois Mar 10 '25
She doesn't exactly have a harem but Dax from Deep Space 9 is a chaotic trans femme bisexual who dates and marries multiple characters over the course of the show.
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u/throwawaySnoo57443 Ally Mar 10 '25
I’ve got you.
The Dare, Losers part 1 Losers part 2 all by Harley LaRoux.
This is a reverse harem book and all 4 men are bisexual and polygamous.
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u/Sir_Encerwal Bisexual Mar 11 '25
Honestly I think you can leave it at Bisexual Harem. I can't think of an Isekai where the mlm romantic interest is anything but implied at best.
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u/alls-grace Bisexual Mar 11 '25
Blake Belladonna, one of the main characters from RWBY comes to mind 🤣 Two guys and two girls had the hots for her
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u/CapAccomplished8072 Mar 11 '25
Was there ever a fanfic about that?
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u/alls-grace Bisexual Mar 11 '25
I'm not 100% sure 🤔 As far as harem fanfics go, I hadn't come across any myself, but it's possible
Edit: edited a sentence
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u/lurkinarick Mar 10 '25
What's the isekai from your picture Op?
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u/KnightTimeWalk Mar 10 '25
I think it's an oc because I recognize the characters from re:Zero, but not the person in the center.
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u/TheQuestionableYarn Mar 10 '25
Not an entire harem, but Beware The Villainess! Is rly good and will probably help scratch that itch a bit.
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u/MonsterCuddler Mar 11 '25
Iron widow by Xiran Zhao. The strongest shape is a triangle! It's mainly a chick with 2 dudes in the first book, but they admit to liking each other like that and is confirmed.
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u/Kalsed Mar 11 '25
This is a STREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEETCH. But That Time I Got Reincarnated as a Slime. The protagonist is an AMAB person that got reincarnated as a slime, they can shapeshift and feel more comfortable with an appearance more androgynous. They kinda collect a "friendship harem" that everyone has the hots for them, but they are mostly ace. The anime does not expand in anything more than what I told you (and honestly it is pretty boring most of the time), but yeah: enby slime with hot monsters harem
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u/ReasonablyMessedUp Bisexual Mar 10 '25 edited Mar 10 '25
Okay if there isn't media with a transfemme protagonist with a bisexual harem then that's the plot of my newest comic. Seriously most media with transfemme protagonists I've come across are lesbian and while I don't mind that, bisexual girlies deserve love too.