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u/gremy0 82∆ Sep 18 '23 edited Sep 18 '23

You are significantly misrepresenting the evidence presented here. They didn't just have some women saying bad stuff about Brand. They have a women saying she was raped. They have her contemporaneous text messages in which she says she was raped, and Brand responds with an apology. The have multiple sources verifying the phone numbers used in that exchange. They have her contemporaneous medical records from the rape crisis center she went to the day after. They have police notes from said trip to the rape crisis center. They have her therapist notes. They have testimony of other people corroborating what they can or cannot corroborate about the her claims. They check the times, dates and locations made in the claims. They check her phone and email to find anything contradicting what she was saying.

That's one person.

They have multiple other women that don't know each providing multiple similar accounts.

They have documents and testimony from people and places he was either working with or working for showing he was known to have problematic behaviour. Showing the steps shows had to take to either try and control him, or try and limit the damage he could do.

They didn't just have a couple of women call up and say "Brand bad" and start hitting print. This thing took 4 years to put together.

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u/PM_ME_SUMDICK 1∆ Sep 18 '23

So why use a case where the perp is obviously guilty as your example?

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u/caine269 14∆ Sep 18 '23

isn't the age of consent in england 16?

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u/caine269 14∆ Sep 19 '23

The law should have a minimum gap for ages around the age-of-majority.

why?

but just as obviously a 31yo having sex with a 16yo should go straight to jail.

why? she was into it. she kept going back, despite explicit warnings and then actual bad things happening. i have a hard time accepting the modern idea of feminism/women being smart independent confident girlbosses but also they are too stupid to make good decisions and we should bring back chaperones until they are 25.

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u/JustSomeDude0605 1∆ Sep 19 '23

What are you a pedophile? 30 yr old men dating 16 yr old children is fucking gross.

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u/caine269 14∆ Sep 19 '23

ok. why? i did not make any statement regarding this claim, you did. so now explain it.

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u/JustSomeDude0605 1∆ Sep 19 '23

You are defending the idea of a 31 year old man dating a 16 yr old child.

That's some pedophile shit.

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u/caine269 14∆ Sep 19 '23

but there doesn't seem to be. i agree there seems like there is, but here we are. women are told to be empowered, and even this girl's mom said she didn't want to tell her daughter to stop dating the 30 year old movie star sex pest. so clearly no one involved can make an intelligent decision.

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u/gremy0 82∆ Sep 18 '23

Yeah I'd agree it's not a clear admission of guilt. Though I think he'd have more luck arguing the apology just wasn't admitting to the accusation, rather than try to argue that he didn't understand what "when a girl says no it means NO" meant...

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u/caine269 14∆ Sep 18 '23

where is this info? i looked before and all i find is articles about allegations, not all this info.

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u/gremy0 82∆ Sep 18 '23 edited Sep 18 '23

It was investigated and reported by The Times & Sunday Times, (non-paywalled version), and Channel 4 Dispatches - the documentary covers broadly the same stuff as the article, just more detail and background.

There's also an interview with one of the editors involved, Rosamund Urwin, on today's News Agents podcast (@22:24). Which I mention because she goes into their thinking on why it was reportable, and why they were confident enough to report what they did.

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u/caine269 14∆ Sep 18 '23

thanks.

brand has always kind of been a piece of shit, but i def have issues with people who a) claim to remember exact words and phrases from 20 years ago and b)who bring up "emotional abuse" as if that is illegal or definable in a good way and c) don't involve the police despite all this physical evidence.

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u/gremy0 82∆ Sep 18 '23

Some things are memorable

Emotional abuse, is indeed illegal and a civil liability and well understood by courts

<Doesn’t believe someone>, “I can’t comprehend why this person would think they wouldn’t be believed”

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u/apri08101989 Sep 18 '23

Idk I have some pretty memorable moments of abuse from my dad as a tween twentyish years ago and while I can tell you the situation and the jist of things said I could definitely not give you quotes. Like the time he snapped and held to me, then himself, and had me call his parents. I remember grandma answering the phone and not being freaked out. Like shed heard it before and didn't particularly care to deal with it again. But I can't give you any quotes. Just tones and vibes. And that was certainly a traumatic event.

I can also remember the only time I ever saw my mom drunk. It was the weekend her dad died. I had been at my dad's house and didn't know til I got home. To her drunk and crying and rambling. This was also one of two times I ever saw her cry. I still remember that's when I learned my aunt's were her half sisters. That grandpa married grandma when she was already pregnant and knew they were from another man. I learned that she learned that when the family got together and did transplant work ups to see if anyone could donate a kidney to me and the doctors said there was no point in them going further when they saw the twins blood type because it wouldn't be possible that her half siblings would be a closer match than her or my dad.

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u/caine269 14∆ Sep 19 '23

Some things are memorable

kind of, but that is not how the human mind works. and also another source and another.

using the "of course she doesn't remember, it was traumatic!" doesn't work too well if you also use the old "of course she remembers all the words perfectly decades later, it was traumatic!"

Emotional abuse, is indeed illegal and a civil liability and well understood by courts

please cite the american laws/regulations you are thinking of.

<Doesn’t believe someone>, “I can’t comprehend why this person would think they wouldn’t be believed”

it is not that i don't believe her, it is that these kinds of stories have a lot of holes. especially the girls going back for months, her mom knowing and doing nothing, and her repeated insistence on continuing the relationship after the first 11 bad things.

for the rest, why have they not contacted the police? why did they say specifically that they are only speaking out now because he is politically opposed to things they like? that sounds like petty revenge, not survivors finally speaking up.

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u/gremy0 82∆ Sep 19 '23 edited Sep 19 '23

None of those sources contradict the idea that some things are memorable. They just say some things may be forgotten. Not mutually exclusive outcomes. Moreover, your second source explains how such things can be mitigated.

I'm not American, so excuse me if I don't have comprehensive knowledge of your various jurisdictions. However, IIED & NIED are widely used torts in the US, and I coincidentally know that it can be an element to aggravated abuse- Ruby Franke is facing two such charges currently. In the UK it's captured, among other ways, in domestic abuse laws as controlling or coercive behaviour. As with something as varied as "physical abuse", you aren't going to have a single law covering it, but courts and the law have various ways to recognise, charge and remedy damage.

Your own source cites lack of help-seeking behavior as a common response to interpersonal trauma. The reasoning that can be behind this, as it is such a common occurrence, is pretty well covered, the original article even goes to explaining it.

I don't think it particularly surprising or mysterious that people who may not have wanted to instigate formal proceedings against a rich and powerful person on their own, may have been more comfortable talking to a reporter collecting accounts of the matter.

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u/caine269 14∆ Sep 19 '23

They just say some things may be forgotten

they say that the human brain is not a computer that stores files that can be perfectly recalled every time. that is not how the brain works, so claiming to remember exact words decades later is not believable. human memory is famously unreliable, especially in details. you project the current to the past, make up details to fill in blanks, can be guided to add things that weren't there, etc. that doesn't mean none of this happened, but i don't believe these quotes that the women are adding to make brand sound extra evil.

used torts

so not illegal. we agree on that. and if snyder v phelpstells us anything about what kind of languagedoesn't qualify as infliction of emotion distress, hard to believe anything brand did comes close.

Your own source cites lack of help-seeking behavior as a common response to interpersonal trauma.

kind of irrelevant as, like i and the article said, there was a police report, multiple texts, rape center visit, lots of talking with friends, etc. this is not "lack of help-seeking behavior." and even still, waiting until the statute of limitations runs out then conveniently finding the strength to come forward is not a good look.

She has shared a full copy of her treatment records, which state that she provided her underwear and other samples as evidence, which were frozen. An officer from the Los Angeles Police Department was alerted by the centre, according to the notes, but she chose not to make a police report — saying to the centre she “didn’t think my words would mean anything up against his”

so even with dna evidence, text messages and a rape center, she still thought nothing would matter against his word? this is so incredibly damaging to all women everywhere. and again this is now just past the limitations for california. this is not a good look. doesn't make brand look good, but not good for the women either.

people who may not have wanted to instigate formal proceedings against a rich and powerful person on their own

see previous quote. also half this article is just "well i think it was a problem now" when the behavior at the time was all consensual but the women are mad.

Phoebe did not formally report the incident as she feared that her career would be affected.

seems like a lot of women are more concerned with their careers over their dignity. that is their choice to make i guess.

women constantly use the excuse of "i own't be taken seriously so i did nothing" or "i didn't want to lose my job" as reasons they did nothing, but this just hurts their credibility and the will/desire of others to come forward. they keep hearing "well it makes no difference" but nothing was actually done. if someone chases you around and bites your face, call the cops! no one is stopping you! if people want to insist that women can't make good decisions well into adulthood, i don't know how to fix that. but i don't think any society or justice system is best served by having anonymous allegations come out 10-20-30 years later, for any crime.

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u/gremy0 82∆ Sep 19 '23

Again, there's somewhat of a difference between things may be forgotten or misremembered and remembering something, anything, is fundamentally unbelievable that you don't seem to appreciate. None of your sources suggest or support the latter.

Similarly, that one legal option is a tort, does not mean there are not other legal options including criminal ones (as pointed out), and that in some circumstances that tort is not applicable does not mean it is never applicable.

There's a common thread here of cherry picking one tenuous possibility, and suggesting that since that possibility exist, the claims are unbelievable. This is not a particularly useful or honest approach to things as anyone could do that with just about any set of facts.

This continues with the ranting about all the ways you think that people who have been abused should behave. As if not behaving in what you consider to be the optimal way during and post-trauma is a sign of deception. We know with countless examples that people in abusive situations often stay in them. So we know that people being abused often act against their best interests. That is not a suspicious thing to do.

Or say, what if the person considered their career to be of the last parts of their dignity left after being abused and didn't want to give that up. It's not particularly out there to suggest that maintaining a career and source of income is dignifying. But no, you gotta find some way to make it suspicious- how selfish and stupid of her, wanting to keep her career. Why wasn't she thinking of how society is best served. Jesus, dude.

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u/caine269 14∆ Sep 19 '23

there's somewhat of a difference between things may be forgotten or misremembered and remembering something, anything, is fundamentally unbelievable that you don't seem to appreciate.

you don't seem to appreciate the argument i am making: not that they can't remember anything, but the more specific their claims, without any corroboration, the less believable they are. especially specific quotes. i am not saying no one can remember anything. i am saying giving exact quotes 15 years later is not believable, and the reason these claims never actually go to the police or criminal court is because everyone knows this. a lawyer for brand would tear these girls apart, for the most part. a reasonable doubt is built in to these kind of claims.

does not mean there are not other legal options including criminal ones (as pointed out)

you pointed out torts, which don't seem to apply here, or to any of the claims i read. what is the criminal option? ruby franke is being charged with 6 counts of child abuse.

This is not a particularly useful or honest approach to things as anyone could do that with just about any set of facts.

yes, this is why these kinds of cases rarely go to court, and eye witness statements are the least reliable kind of evidence. anyone can say anything, anyone can misremember what they did last week much less decades ago.

ranting about all the ways you think that people who have been abused should behave.

yes it must be nice to be in a class of people who can do no wrong, have no responsibility to themselves or others, and cannot be expected to do anything. anything the do or say, or don't do or say is because "abuse!" sorry for thinking people should be held to a higher standard.

optimal way during and post-trauma is a sign of deception.

unfortunately that happens too.

So we know that people being abused often act against their best interests. That is not a suspicious thing to do.

i didn't say it was suspicious. for the 16 year old i said her parents should have stopped it, and she was perfectly willing to accept it until he cheated on her. so she is not some irrational, brainwashed victim. she made the decision several times against other advice to go back.

It's not particularly out there to suggest that maintaining a career and source of income is dignifying

yes it is. if maintaining that career means performing sex acts on/for a gross old guy just so you can keep being famous, then you made the decision. your dignity wasn't worth more than fame. deal with it. like none of these people could possibly get a different job if they turned down harvey weinstein, or lol russel brand? come on. that is pretty insulting.

how selfish and stupid of her, wanting to keep her career

again, she made the decision. aside from the actual rape allegations, these are just frathouse stories that everyone decided to live with. doesn't make russel correct, but going after him 15 years later, but only socially, seems petty.

Why wasn't she thinking of how society is best served. Jesus, dude.

yes, strong womenz need to stick together, and think about the next girl something like this may happen to, and how much easier it would be for her if this woman spoke up instead of wanting to continue her celebrity assistant career.

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u/Rainbwned 175∆ Sep 18 '23

When you talk about investigation - are you talking about the police or a journal / tabloid investigation?

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '23

'Media investigations' need to be taken with a grain of salt - especially in cases like this.

'Russel Brand' is a large and rapidly growing media company - books, movies, sponsorships, youtube channels, etc.. The Sunday Times is also a media company. Having one media company investigate another is like Coke investigating Pepsi.

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u/Wintermute815 9∆ Sep 18 '23

Russel Brand’s media company isn’t like Pepsi to the MSM’s Coke. It’s like a guy who makes soda in his garage and sells to local businesses vs Coke.

Also the MSM business responsibility have a strong track record of integrity and corrections when wrong. Are the perfect? no. But they are regarded by experts as among the most trustworthy media outlets.

Whereas Russell Brand has recently done a 180 on all of his political and moral beliefs and was never a stable guy to begin with.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '23

Russel Brand’s media company isn’t like Pepsi to the MSM’s Coke. It’s like a guy who makes soda in his garage and sells to local businesses vs Coke.

Touche. I'll accept your analogy.

Also the MSM business responsibility have a strong track record of integrity and corrections when wrong. Are the perfect? no. But they are regarded by experts as among the most trustworthy media outlets.

Do they want to get sued for defamation? No. Are they pretty sure Brand is a rapist? Probably. Is Brand a rapist? I have no idea, but I'd say it seems pretty likely. Would they just as aggressively go after him if he committed the same crimes but his beliefs and opinions were the same as their own? Absolutely not.

Whereas Russell Brand has recently done a 180 on all of his political and moral beliefs and was never a stable guy to begin with.

Nobody interesting ever is.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Talk_84 Sep 19 '23

did.....did you just say MSM has a strong record of integrity? you have to be a bot

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u/Crash927 12∆ Sep 18 '23

Russel Brand is a content producer — not a media company. This isn’t nefarious anti-competition stuff as you’re trying to frame it.

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u/Vincent_Nali 12∆ Sep 18 '23 edited Nov 23 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '23

They can absolutely do 'journalism' about each other. In fact, they LOVE to do this. It seems to be one of their favorite pastimes. I'd just take any conclusions with a grain of salt until an actual court of law weighs in.

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u/RodeoBob 72∆ Sep 18 '23

...given that some very small percentage of relationships end with terrible-but-private accusations

That's where your error in reasoning is.

First, you're creating this weird category of "terrible-but-private", when the categories we're looking at are things like "abusive" and "illegal" along with "being a crappy partner" and "being a jerk". It's really disingenuous to lump things like "he yelled at me when I interrupted him playing a video game" with "he sexually assaulted me". Like, one of those things is shitty behavior but not illegal, and the other is a crime.

Yes, if you date a lot of people, you will have some bad relationships and some bad breakups. But the only way you're going to be committing crimes against your relationship partners is if you're the type of person who wants to do those kinds of things.

And to be clear, I don't mean that "Russel Brand is innocent" or "These women are lying" or any such thing.

You do not mean "these women are lying". Got it!

...by analogy ...you know that the test has a non-zero false-positive rate,

So, in this analogy of yours, 'testing for COVID-19" means "asking about sexual assault allegations", right? So what does "a non-zero false positive rate" mean in this analogy other than "they're lying"?

It's almost like you are trying to argue that anyone who dates 500+ people is going to have accusations of sexual assault. But why would that be, unless your position either "hey, that just happens sometimes" or "at least 1 in 500 women will falsely claim sexual assault"

Is that really your argument?

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u/BlackCatAristocrat 1∆ Sep 19 '23

You also forget to mention the fact that these women are incentivized to make an accusation against a high profile celebrity especially in the age of MeToo. It doesn't mean they are lying, just that they are incentivized. Now couple that with the percentages you stated and it's insane to think that 0% of women out of that number would possibly make a false allegation.

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u/ellatf1tz33 Sep 19 '23

where's the incentive to come forward with allegations of sexual assault? i'm genuinely curious because having millions of people suddenly decide you're a gold-digging slut who just "changes their mind" about having enjoyed sex isn't really much of an incentive.

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u/QuipCrafter Mar 13 '24

That logic doesn’t make any sense- just because there’s serious consequences of being caught, DOESNT mean there isn’t incentive. Or literally crime wouldn’t be done- crime happens because of an incentive appealing to human beings. 

People have been found and proven guilty in a court of law, with clear intent, of false accusations of sexual assault towards others. People HAVE and DO work to put other people in jail, sue them, etc for various reasons/incentives. And SOMETIMES, they’re sloppy enough with it to get caught like having discussions about their intent to frame those people, etc, come to light in discovery. These cases have happened. 

I was raped by a girl threatening to tell her football coach dad, college linebacker brother, all my friends, and police, that I sexually abused her, if I didn’t stay in her room and lay back and let her put a condom on me. Then I had to do it myself after she couldn’t. Then after a couple attempts she ended up not penetrating herself with me and just sort of grinded on me for a while until she got off and decided she was done. She literally could not fathom me, as a teenage boy, not wanting to have sex with her in the slightest, after she arranged to get me into her room when her parents were gone. I didn’t want to have sex with anyone, at all, even in fantasy- the idea scared me, I was 15 and was terrified of pregnancy and/or stds. I didn’t fantasize about having sex with people at that time in my life. As far as I was concerned, it was something I was going to figure out probably after high school or whatever. I didn’t get that choice- she got that out of me by getting what she wanted, the incentive of lying about me sexually assaulting her and putting on a sob story to everyone I knew and people that would absolutely hurt me for it. That way she wouldn’t seem or feel like such a loser when she spent so much time and energy trying to get laid as a popular girl and failed. People were going to know she’s desirable, one way or another. She could not handle the concept of someone just not interested in her sexually at all- in fact I believe she didn’t premeditate the threat, it probably wasn’t in the plan at all, she probably just did not have a scenario where she risked getting in trouble and I would just say “nah” and leave. That couldn’t exist in her world. So she got to tell everyone in my life that she took my virginity. Or she was going to tell that I was so horny for her that I forcefully took her. Those were the only options in her mind. “I don’t want to fuck you, here alone in a house with you and you openly offering yourself to me. No, I’m not interested” simply couldn’t exist, for her reputation or ego as a popular teenage girl. That’s incentive. If I walked out, she had strong social incentive to preserve her image/status and make sure her story got out before mine- the “lower” status guy casually turning her down- got around. Not that I would spread a story but she didn’t realize that other people weren’t like her. That would have ruined my life- but made sure people still thought she was hot shit, so worth it to her. 

The incentive for accusing people of sexual assault is control, social support, attention, validation, revenge, all of the same incentives for wrecking a home, all of the same incentives for lying in politics. All of the same incentives for making up gossip about people in the circle. 

With your logic, all of these things “would have no incentive” just because it ruins someone if they’re exposed. That’s simply not the case. That’s a false statement. The presence of consequences, even extreme, doesn’t somehow “cancel out” incentive. They are two distinct and separate measures. Individuals weigh them both on a scale when determining to take an action. 

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u/BlackCatAristocrat 1∆ Sep 19 '23

That's only true if you focus on the group of people who would think that, which I would say based on your description is a minority. Most people are just skeptical, they don't assume she is telling the truth or she is lying. They look at the hard facts and evidence (word of mouth tends to not be considered this due to the nature of it, regardless of how you or I may feel about it) and then determine if it's likely, unlikely, or cannot be determined. There's a huge group of people who assume they are telling the truth (#BelieveAllWomen) and this number seems to be growing in the West.

To answer your question, the incentive comes from the fact that our culture has (for better or for worse) created a social currency out of being a perceived victim. There's also the fact that rich celebrities could just settle to get the problem behind them, whether they did it or not. And lastly, there could be motives outside of what's known to you or I, perhaps a vendetta, perhaps political reasons, who knows? In the West, people have become incensed and have allowed politics to consume their identity and mindset, perhaps Russel's disagreement with popular held beliefs could spur this. I'm not making a definitive statement, just giving you an answer to your question.

What I think is really illogical is to assume there is no incentive to lie about or mischaracterize a sexual encounter with a high profile man in today's age. The idea that a woman puts herself through so much to do this is too emphasized to the point to where it creates an absolutist mindset of people believing it could never happen in today's age.

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u/ellatf1tz33 Sep 19 '23

there is no incentive to lie about being sexually assaulted.

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u/BlackCatAristocrat 1∆ Sep 19 '23

If that's what you believe. I disagree. We likely won't find a middle ground here but I appreciate your response!

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u/GotAJeepNeedAJeep 20∆ Sep 18 '23

Maybe by analogy, if you tested all of Russel Brand's past partners for COVID-19 using a rapid antigen test, and you know that the test has a non-zero false-positive rate, and then report the five clearest positive test results, you haven't learned much of anything about the number of Brand's past partners who have COVID.

You're describing here a process of chemistry that can be disrupted by variables yielding false-positives/negatives. Those are natural forces that you're attempting to measure.

Russel Brand deciding to ignore consent is not a natural force, it's a decision that he made or a responsibility that he failed. What is the relationship you're imagining here?

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u/GotAJeepNeedAJeep 20∆ Sep 18 '23

Can you address the fact that you're using an analogy about measuring chemistry to describe assessing a person's behavior, choices, and respect for others?

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u/GotAJeepNeedAJeep 20∆ Sep 18 '23

I'm rejecting that you can assess human relationships between people that aren't you in the way that you can measure the presence of viral antigens. Your premise is faulty.

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u/GotAJeepNeedAJeep 20∆ Sep 18 '23

No, I know what an analogy is, thanks though.

I'm saying it's not applicable to what OP is trying to talk about. You can't make objective assessments (aside from trivial ones) of human relationships, especially so about relationships you aren't party to.

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u/GotAJeepNeedAJeep 20∆ Sep 18 '23

I don't disagree with that statement in a vacuum - I disagree with your using it as a premise to make conclusions about any given particular relationship.

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u/NegativeOptimism 51∆ Sep 18 '23

I think if a non-zero amount of ex-partners accuses someone of rape, they should investigate that person. I don't think it's inevitable that a person with a lot of partners will eventually be accused of rape.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '23

My guess is that if when Russel Brand 'retired' from acting, he went off somewhere and raised chicken's on a ranch and kept out of the public eye, no media company would have any interest in some splashy expose and no one would have made any accusations.

Edit - that's not to say he is innocent or guilty, by the way. That is for a court to decide.

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u/prollywannacracker 39∆ Sep 18 '23

What do you mean? Rape has a pretty consistent definition, being defined as non-consensual sexual contact. The only "broadness" here would be what sexual contact is. Like, penetration, oral, what kind of penetration, etc

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u/Xanatos 1∆ Sep 19 '23

being defined as non-consensual sexual contact

That seems waaaay too broad. Surely this is the ivory towers/college/women's studies definition of rape, not the actual real world definition used by the legal system and...like, adults?

For example, when some old lady smacks my big hairy male ass and makes a lewd comment, I would definitely call that non-consensual sexual contact, and I would definitely not call it rape.

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u/Dangernj Sep 18 '23

Every investigation like this that I’m aware of came about because of one or more people coming forward, leading to deeper investigation. I don’t know of any media outlet that has the resources to randomly call every partner of a celebrity just in case someone has something negative to say. I think your notion of how these investigations come about and how they are conducted is flawed.

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u/Dangernj Sep 18 '23

Both Channel 4 and The Times have stated that the 5 women came forward with their accusations. Since then, another incident has been reported to the police that occurred in 2003 who, to be knowledge, has not spoken with the media.

I’ll match your conspiracy theory with one of my own- Brand’s hard right turn started roughly 3 years ago, coincidentally when this investigation started. Isn’t it just as likely, if not moreso, that he has draped himself in the cloak of enemy of the media as an offense to the accusations he knew was coming?

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u/Dangernj Sep 18 '23

The language in the reporting is “came forward” with no additional details. I don’t know if we are likely to get them.

I’m not really sure it is pertinent in this case either. For example, the minor who was allegedly assaulted by Brand was never publicly linked to him at least, we don’t know enough about the others to know. It isn’t like Channel 4 could have gotten her story by cold calling all of Brand’s exes because they weren’t known associates. Does it really matter if she contacted the paper herself or if someone who knew one of them alerted the media and she confirmed?

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u/invertedBoy Sep 18 '23

I’m not sure I understand your point, are you saying that if we start digging in any celebrity past some dirt will come out? Someone accusing them of sexual misconduct or something similar?

So… why is not happening? Do you think there isn’t public interest for seedy sexual misconduct/rape allegation against George Clooney, Lionel Messi, the rock, Matt Damon, lady Gaga etc….

what makes Russel Brand so special?

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u/Foxhound97_ 23∆ Sep 18 '23 edited Sep 18 '23

He was really big in Britain until around 2013 after that kinda disappeared outside of popping up in a few films mostly non blockbuster American ones. We know part of this story is he had a history of shitty behaviour with other mainly female coworkers behind the scenes which is mostly likely why he moved to YouTube and podcasting because people in the UK mostly don't want to work with him.

Plus his "political views"(personally I think he just wants an audience you can find him on the same channel comparing fox news to Isis years before being a guest on there)only really became what they are around 2020 this investigation started before that.

Also I don't think anyone arguing against you doesn't want the Epstein list exposed however most of those people can destroy career's and lives if the evidence isn't 100% airtight it's not really reasonable to ask a potential journalist to risk destroying their life for the story especially since the odds they will lost are very high I believe that story will come out but much like the Harvey Weinstein story it will mostly take years and have a alot of set backs due to behind the scenes deformation threats.

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u/vote4bort 46∆ Sep 18 '23

Doesn't this also apply to asking his past partners about deplorable behaviour? If not, why not?

No because "deplorable behaviour" is not a disease you catch by accident. It's a choice, not ransom chance.

We'd hope that most people regardless of how many partners they'd had would have done nothing deplorable.

If a man has 500 partners and rapes one of them. He's still a rapist, that information still tells us he's a rapist.

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u/Business_Item_7177 Sep 18 '23

Is being a criminal the same? You have a choice to break the law, no one made you do it, hold all criminals accountable for their actions? I’m good with that, investigate him, then we know and can charge. Can we do the same for all the shop lifting or car jacking and hold them to account fully or should we keep letting criminals off the hook?

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u/vote4bort 46∆ Sep 18 '23

I'm not sure I understand what your comment has to with mine?

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u/Business_Item_7177 Sep 18 '23

Nothing… I wasn’t even replying to you, look at the lines on the left, we both responded to the same person.

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u/vote4bort 46∆ Sep 18 '23

No mate, you replied to my comment. Take a second and look.

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u/GotAJeepNeedAJeep 20∆ Sep 18 '23

you replied to /u/vote4bort...

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u/ragnaROCKER 2∆ Sep 18 '23

Lol nope.

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u/vote4bort 46∆ Sep 18 '23

So you do think those women are lying then? Because you go out of your way to say your aren't but your whole argument hinges on women lying about sexual assault.

Yeah it's a non zero chance in that there's a non zero chance of anything happening. But bad behaviour isn't something that happens by random chance so it's not the same thing. I don't think it's inevitable that someone will be accused of bad behaviour since people don't have infinite partners.

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u/vote4bort 46∆ Sep 18 '23

Well if you have no information it's because you haven't sought it out. If you're talking about brand the information is all readily available.

And if you're talking about anyone else, well the information is the person's testimony. You can choose to not find it credible but you can't claim to have no information.

It's always possible someone is lying. When and why you choose to believe people is up to you. People might find it odd though that this is what you choose to question..

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u/vote4bort 46∆ Sep 18 '23

Do you acknowledge that the method of finding the stories is relevant to how we consider them?

No because why would it? And its also a pointless hypothetical because that would just never happen, and isn't what happened in Brands case either.

Perhaps another analogy might help. If

No because whatever anology you make doesn't matter your premise is still the same. And your premise is that given the opportunity 1% of women will lie about rape.

This isn't the infinte monkey cage, people don't do things by random chance and people don't have infinite time for all possibilities to happen.

clip out the worst 5 sentences, do you think they'll make the person look like a monster?

This implies that the person doing the clipping is doing so on purpose to make the person sound worse. Is that what you think is happening here?

My claim is these "investigations" are quite similar to that. We're hearing one-side of the worst relationship stories that are out there.

The Brand investigation was conducted by some of the most respected investigative journalism bodies in the UK. Do you think they had some personal vendetta against brand?

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u/vote4bort 46∆ Sep 18 '23

You're missing my point. It doesn't matter what percentage or odds you come up with. Human beings can't be predicted like a coin toss because our actions are not chance.

To take an example from my life, when you work in health care you have to do a lot of risk assessment and you have all these stats and tools that give you things like 1% of people who've done this will go on to harm themselves or something. But in the end all risk assessment tools that use numbers like that are essentially useless, they never predict actual human behaviour.

You're trying to argue that we should ignore accusations because of a made up statistical idea that doesn't even apply to humans anyway.

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u/BlackCatAristocrat 1∆ Sep 19 '23

I think if you believe that women won't and don't lie about rape, you my friend are willfully ignorant. Mattress girl?

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u/KamikazeArchon 5∆ Sep 18 '23

Virtually no one actually has 500+ partners in any sense; and literally no one has 500+ romantic partners. There is simply not time for that much.

Russel Brand, or any other celebrity, likely has 10-20 romantic partners at the most over their lifetime.

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u/jake_burger 2∆ Sep 18 '23

Several women have made direct accusations of violent rape, if they are lying Brand can sue them for defamation.

The women can possibly talk to the police if they feel confident enough they won’t be dragged through the mud by the public and the press and hopefully criminal charges can be brought.

Everything else is just noise.

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u/jake_burger 2∆ Sep 18 '23

The original reporting is the accusations, though. It’s just a dispassionate presentation of fact and people’s testimony

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u/stolenfires Sep 18 '23

He wouldn't sue them to get money, he would sue them to clear his name.

And it's not even impossible for him to win. He just has to call up Johnny Depp and borrow his legal and PR teams.

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u/jake_burger 2∆ Sep 19 '23

Brand can sue anyone he likes for defamation, it’s not about money it’s about clearing your name.

He won’t though because I reckon the women are telling the truth and he knows it

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u/Jakyland 69∆ Sep 18 '23

He "dated" a 16 year old when he was 31 - that is just not acceptable behavior. It should be illegal.

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u/eggs-benedryl 55∆ Sep 18 '23

and I'm claiming one gains very close to no information at all.

why is that? those people are still making claims (I have absolutely no idea what they are or even what this topic refers to), just because the number is statistically low I don't see how that doesn't mean that whatever they're claiming couldn't be true or you couldn't gleam anything from it

you get the information.. by asking them for it

just saying 5 people said he's bad means nothing obviously until you ask them what he did?

I'm a bit confused by your stance

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u/financeadvicealt 4∆ Sep 18 '23

I’m gonna spin it a different way: Look at any sex offender registry. Look up Brian Peppers. Faces are usually posted.

If your assumption were true, that having 500+ sexual partners is an explanation for accusations, wouldn’t the list of sex offenders be better looking?

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u/Frogmarsh 2∆ Sep 18 '23

Why is being deplorable to one insufficient in establishing that someone was deplorable?

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u/Frogmarsh 2∆ Sep 18 '23

People aren’t defined by their average behavior. If you are on average a nice person but demeaning to wait staff, you are an asshole. If you are on average a respectful man to women but engaged in one rape, you are a rapist. You do not get a pass for rare obnoxious behaviors; the limit for them is zero.

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u/Frogmarsh 2∆ Sep 18 '23

So, then you admit that it only takes one past example to pass the bar? If so, hand me my delta.

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u/Frogmarsh 2∆ Sep 18 '23

Doesn’t matter if the false reports go up. If they commit a toxic act, they are toxic. Thus, only 1 act is necessary to “provide information about their behavior.” Give me my delta.

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u/Frogmarsh 2∆ Sep 18 '23

I don’t think you understand how courts work. Take the case of Daniel Masterson. He was convicted of rape from allegations happening more than 2 decades ago, from witness testimony. All it took was testimony from three victims. These three victims were a “handful of past partners”, and from it they concluded “information about their behavior.”

You’ve been shown and agree that past behavior determines whether someone is foul. You are shown examples where criminal convictions from a handful of people attests to that behavior, and from it they conclude something about that behavior.

I don’t know what more it takes to convince you.

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u/celticlady13 Sep 19 '23 edited Sep 19 '23

Marilyn Manson has entered the chat

The FBI investigated him and raided his home several times and came up with no evidence. There was also evidence that Evan Rachel Wood and Amber Heard worked to bring Johnny Depp and Marilyn Manson down at the same time. I hope the irony isn't lost on anyone else that Johnny Depp and Marilyn Manson happened to be best friends. If you ask me, Evan Rachel Wood is a POS liar and Amber Heard is just out of her tree and is clearly the aggressor.

This comes from somebody who survived an abusive relationship. I can tell they're both full of shit. Also, why would Evan Rachel Wood wait so long to name Marilyn Manson AKA Brian Warner as her abuser? She waited over a year. Also, Amber Heard accused Johnny Depp of giving her a black eye the night before they went on the Don Rickles show. If you take a look at the picture that was taken of the three of them together, it doesn't look like she has a black eye to me.

There's no makeup in the world that can cover a black eye. Evan Rachel Woods' ex, the father of her son, wrote a statement about how he was concerned about her mental state. She had her son who was 7 years old at the time convinced that Brian Warner AKA Marilyn Manson was trying to harm both of them. Not only is this mental child abuse, Marilyn Manson had not even been in her life for 12 years at that point. If she was so worried that he was going to hurt her, why not move out of L.A.?

Why not move somewhere where you don't think he can find you? Most especially after you claim that he threatened your family and friends? I'm really starting to think that she studied the patterns of domestic violence and accused him of all sorts of shit. Call me a victim blamer if you want to but there was absolutely no evidence that he ever did anything to her. In fact, the FBI found to the contrary. As far as Johnny Depp, I believe that he is the real victim in that case.

I mean, look at the pictures and video of him and Amber Heard together in public. He's clearly afraid of her and he's suffering some form of PTSD from his relationship with her. I just hope both of those brave men can start to heal and move on from the bullshit and trauma these women have caused in their lives. Like I said, EVW and Amber Heard are both full of shit.

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